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RJLOVER
January 24th, 2011, 07:09 PM
Please help me answer this to prove a point to my ex who im still having sex with

HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU CHEAT BEFORE ITS CONSIDERED AN AFFAIR!?
please anyone give your answers.
Fact
January 24th, 2011, 07:22 PM
Puberty :arrow2: Relationships

In my opinion, once.
Sage
January 24th, 2011, 07:26 PM
OP, you can't prove points to exes. That's absurd.
ShatteredWings
January 24th, 2011, 07:34 PM
If you're still having sex with your ex, it's a fuck buddy.
ikhasgkfjh
January 24th, 2011, 07:44 PM
Once.
RJLOVER
January 24th, 2011, 08:12 PM
sorry i meant to add that he has a gf now. were not fuck buddies.
Daniel_
January 24th, 2011, 09:32 PM
Once.
IAMWILL
January 24th, 2011, 10:14 PM
Once.
Modus Operandi
January 24th, 2011, 10:54 PM
Hate to be a parrot, but yeah, just once.
Sage
January 25th, 2011, 02:42 AM
I would actually say two or three times. When I hear 'affair', I picture something more elaborate and consistent, not a single experience with someone besides your significant other. But really, it's all just semantics, and I'm still going to insist that trying to prove anything to an ex is a futile and petty way to spend your time.
Kitty
January 25th, 2011, 10:19 AM
cheating is once...

and affair is something recurring..

but remember you shouldn't come second. Be patient and something more suitable will come up.

Think of other people's feelings.
ShaneK
January 25th, 2011, 10:42 AM
As people have said an affair implies a relationship not just a one-night stand. Unless you have an open relationship, which you did not. Since his your ex - why are you so bothered with him, as he has another gf?

You will find someone who will just stay with you rather than cheating on you.
Kaius
January 25th, 2011, 10:45 AM
cheating is once...

and affair is something recurring..


This says it all to be honest. Anything more than once is classed as an affair. Cheating once in my books though is still just as bad as having an affair, its still a break of trust.
Ambrosia
January 25th, 2011, 12:02 PM
It shouldn't happen in the first place. Once is the answer but you should never let it get that far to begin with!
kyle95
January 25th, 2011, 02:43 PM
If he's your ex, keep it that way. It's a moot point, move on.
Bluesman
January 25th, 2011, 03:54 PM
Just my opinion, but I'd say once.
RJLOVER
January 25th, 2011, 10:12 PM
im a guy to clear that up with some. its the fact that he got too scared when he realized he was with a guy. look at my other threads ive started to read more.