Gay or not

[Bobthebeast666]

Is it gay to think other men are hot occasionally or is it just puberty because I highly doubt I'm actually gay I have a girl friend and no matter how hard I try I still hit on other women but I'm only 13.

[StillurDyl]

Well thats totally up to you! You dont have to know anytime soon. You're thirteen! Puberty really changes your thought processes and even makes you think illogically sometimes. however, you should be open to the possibility of being curious. but for now, enjoy your time with your GF. =]

hope this was somewhat helpful!

[Lord_Cosby 13]

I think Dylan pretty much summed it up. During puberty (especially early puberty) your might start thinking of other guys sexually, and even about experimenting with them, but it's just your mind exploring possibilities and is totally normal, even if you're not gay

[Quahog]

It's fine to be curious about those sort of things. Your hormones are interfering to your sexual thoughts. Doesn't mean your gay.

[nick]

Its pretty normal to be honest, most people are able to tell which members of their own sex are hot, its just that some people dont like to admit it. From what you have told us there is nothing to suggest that you are gay or bi.

[greekboy]

It is only normal to recognise whether somebody is good looking or not and even imagiune them naked. Even the most straight guys will do this, but it doesn't necessarily mean that they, or you are gay. That comes down to whether you have strong emotional feelings towards them.

[tyler007]

Its not gay at all thats just part of grown up and puberty.