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High
January 23rd, 2011, 09:53 PM
A couple weeks ago I finally asked my friend out, She's perfect. Beautiful, great personality, her who persona. She lives 15 miles away and goes to a different school. I'm only 14, so I only see her like once a week. But my problem is, every day, second, minute, week, she is ALWAYS on my mind. But then I become paranoid..What if she doesn't like me as much as I like her? What if she likes someone else? What if somebody takes her from me? ..I always want to be with her and hold her. I'm just so paranoid and I can't stop thinking about her. I'm just scared that the relationship would end..Idk please help me. It just stresses me out so bad.

Ambrosia
January 23rd, 2011, 09:57 PM
Yeah that happens. You're young and if something does happen it's not your fault it just means it's not meant to be! You need to stop worrying so much and take it as it is, live in the now and don't worry about whether or not you two will be together a month from now. The fact is that if she is with you right now then she probably DOES like you! Silly, that is an obvious fact.

Sage
January 23rd, 2011, 11:39 PM
You're fourteen. The relationship will end. Enjoy yourself while it lasts.

Hastro
January 24th, 2011, 05:11 AM
Yeah. Just relax and enjoy it while it lasts.

Josiah7
January 24th, 2011, 06:29 AM
Hearing Stuff like that dosent help guys ^^^

What you need to do is let her know how you feel, talk to her about it. She will love you more for it. Treat her well - and HAVE FUN. No point being down in the dumps all the time. Its great that you feel so strongly about her. Keep in contact with her as much as you can.

If you need anything please dont hesitate to PM me Im here to help.

Quahog
January 24th, 2011, 09:13 AM
If it ends, it ends. That won't be the last one you'll have.

Ambrosia
January 25th, 2011, 12:04 PM
It helps only because it's true. There's a little thing about how you only know love up to a point of age and it grows every year. It will end and if it does there might be a later chance in life. But he has to enjoy it for now, not look 20 years into the future.

kyle95
January 25th, 2011, 02:41 PM
If you continue feeling like this mate, you'll lose her for certain. Girls want their space and the last thing they want is a love-sick bloke on their hands. You'll soon realise they're attracted to blokes that are confident. Take it slow, be happy that you see her once a week. Don't scare her off by falling apart, she's only 14! If you truly love her, give her space and lots of time. Above all, respect her right to see and date anyone.