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zebravomt
January 23rd, 2011, 12:57 PM
Well i nee some big ass help. My 2 BFFs are both lez. They both LOVE each other to death. One of there mom knows about them but the other is a big gay basher.
The girl whos mom doesnt know found out. her bother being the fucking shit face he is, took her phone and gave it to there mom. now here mom tried to ground and slap they gay out of here. i am so scared. they dont know what to do. i will do anything to help them.
I want to let her brother know how much she is hurting, but he doesn't give a shit! What do i do! help me someone!

Sosaku
January 23rd, 2011, 01:31 PM
well, if you see physical abuse on her at school(bruises, cuts, etc), get her to talk to a counseler, or a teacher, i'm sorry about this, i really am, but i'm sure an adult can make sure she is taken care of. i hope this gets better.

zebravomt
January 23rd, 2011, 01:34 PM
her mom is changeing her school and she is not aloud to ever talk to anyone at this school tha she "might have sexual feelings for" (as in a girl) ever. i want to cry so bad. i think i will talk to my school about what to do just leave out the "Ill slap the gey out of you" part.

closed
January 23rd, 2011, 02:18 PM
Taylor, first i have to mention that her mother acts awfully. But in order to do something against her, you need to understand her motives. She has a daughter, and she is afraid that she won't have a family and will have the stereotypical gay lifestyle (STDs, prostitution, and lots of other non-related things). I don't say that what she is doing is justified, but we need to understand her point of view. Now, talk to someone about it. Maybe to her brother, or mother, father, or any related person to her which can effect her mother's actions. Try to talk with some teacher or councelor. And just always be there for them... I hope it helps, even though i don't have any practical way to help you beyond this...
Good luck!

nick
January 23rd, 2011, 03:31 PM
I dont think you can do anything to try to interfere within the context of her family. If you believe she is being physically abused then try to get her to talk to a school counsellor or even the police.

Beyond that the most important thing is for you to stand by her and give her all the support you possibly can, so that at least she knows she still has friends that care.

tyler007
January 23rd, 2011, 07:35 PM
If you really think that she is being abused physically then you must tell someone at your school, even if she is being tranfered. You can also tell make a report to DSS, you can do it over the phone i think.
No one deserves to be abused physically, mentally, or sexuality, if you really think its happenning then YOU must report it, in order to stop it.

jason123
January 24th, 2011, 04:02 PM
You should report the abuse to your school or even the police. As Ty said noone deserves to be abused