Im 13 and gay

[jameshotti12boy]

hey everyone! im 13 and gay and i want to be in love! is there something wrong with me? ive been in a relationship that didnt work out. but i miss loving someone and being loved back. am i weird?

[Donkey]

No, this is pretty much as normal as it gets for the 5% or so of LGBT people out there, and the much larger proportion of sexuality questioning teens.

[jameshotti12boy]

I Just hope i can find someone.

[flashstep96]

Why would there be something wrong with you? its human nature! :) okay so it was 1 relationship, we are all young (in a way) and things get crazy sometimes. but your chance will come one day.:)

[nick]

You might be a little bit younger than some people are to feel the need for love, but then being gay brings with it a greater need for acceptance. Its not wierd, its kind of mature.

[jameshotti12boy]

Thanks im pretty mature for my age. ive been through alot in my life including some really horrible stuff. so feeling loved is really important to me

[Mario T]

nope

[Infidelitas]

Thanks im pretty mature for my age. ive been through alot in my life including some really horrible stuff. so feeling loved is really important to me

Everyone is loved on Virtual Teen, even you dont know us in person :)

[Tristin.]

You want to be in love?vwell then, there is nothing wrong with you what so ever!!

personaly, im a hopless romantic. i fall deeply in love and i usualy muck up some how lol but i know what you mean, you want the feeling of being loved, of being valued. You will find someone, it will take time, but when you find the right boy, you will never get him out of your head. Good luck :D

[chris4827]

not weird at all, youre in the same boat with alot of other people, including me but im bi, just wait for it the opportunity will come...after all gays and bi's have to stick together right??;)

[Apollo.]

I'm 16 and I'm starting to really feel like this. I'm starting to think I will never find anybody because I don't think I will ever tell anyone if I'm gay.

[jameshotti12boy]

Im not out to my parents yet but here i feel comfortable telling everyone

[CantLiveWithoutYou]

No but don't say you're gay. Hormones make you want to fuck everything that moves. You can't really decide until puberty is done and you have a SERIOUS relationship. Not a one night stand with a guy or girl.
Of course there's nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, heterosexual, or whatever you are, but you shouldn't think you are in the middle of puberty.

My example that you don't have to read but it's here for you to reference or whatever(no one reply to this you'll get us both in trouble, you'll turn this into a hijacking and I'm just telling a story):
I've always thought of myself as bisexual ever since I learned that it was possible to like both men and women, when I was like 9. Last year at my school this amazing boy moved here and the first day of school we absolutely loved each other(him in a different way than me, like he just thought I was being a great friend but I wanna fuck him :D). No one could keep us apart. To this day still love him more than anything--more than FAMILY-- so I'm becoming more and more convinced it's not hormones, because they are very wild and may make you give some boy a billion blowjobs in one day and then the next day you hate him, it's uncommon for hormones to keep you in one mindset for very long-a day or two. It's a one in a billion chance to meet someone that's 100% perfect for you, in your opinion.
It's highly unlikely you'll feel you're homosexual throughout puberty, even for me some days I feel 100% gay and others 100% 'straight'.

[dajakesta10]

gays and bi's have to stick together right??;)

Agreed ;)

[Cudder]

Mabye you should consider one of your best friends that always makes you happy