My sister...

[Fruit_Tart.]

Firstoff, I have no idea where this should go, but this is about my eleven year old sister.
During a one month time period from December to now my sister has become really aggressive and treatens a lot of people violently. More than a few times she's pulled a knife/s out on me and some of my cousins, which is very very treatening (not to me but to others around). I don't want her hurting anyone or doing anything to hurt herself, and I really don't care if she hurts me because she can take her anger out on me all she wants. I just don't want her to take it further where she actually stabs somebody or kills herself like she says she is. I actually love her, even after she tried stabbing me, but all I want to do is help her before it's too late. So someone, any vteens out there please try and help and give me advice on what I need to do...

[Syvelocin]

Mental Illnesses :arrow: Family and Friends

Honestly, other than gently nudging her in the right direction, I don't think there's much you as her brother can do. Someone with more authority over her would have a better chance of being able to work it out of her. Being that violent that young but still at an age where she's grown up and developed a good deal now, I think therapy could have a good effect if she cooporates enough. Otherwise, just picking up on the parenting. You could have a little talk with her, just to tell her and let her know that you care for her and are worried for her. Otherwise, I don't know what to tell you.

[Fruit_Tart.]

I feel like a parent to her already. Everything and anything she does i control because my parents don't seem to care. I listen to her and try not to get mad with her because that's how she and i were raised to handle things, to get mad. But i'm definately different. I'm not going in my dad's footsteps and going to neglect or hurt the people he cares, or taking my mom's where she doesn't really care.

I try and direct her the best way I can by telling her how she might end up and what my parents my do if they found out what they could do to her. I really don't want her going to some shrink but it might jus help her... I don't know how to break it to my parents that she's not all that sane, but i'll try. I really don't want her ending up fucked up in the head like I am because no one was there to help me, besides here.

And thanks Syvelocin. :) your advice helps.

[nick]

It really does sound as if you should talk to your parents in the first instance and they should probably talk you your family doctor. It sounds as if some form of counselling would be a good idea.

[Ginger218]

I had a gf like that. Everything is fine then one day she whent boilstic made engines of all her friends and said she was going to kill me and wanted to piss on my dead body . About 2 monthes later she had her first pieriod so hopefuls you can just hang on a little bit and see if it passes.

[Fruit_Tart.]

Oh. o_o I'm sorry to hear...
Yeah... Well, it's already been awhile since she's tried something and she's doing fine now, but thank you much for your concern and input. :)