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jokermaster101
January 21st, 2011, 07:29 PM
my friend and I are close. we have watched porn together, seen each other naked, watched each other jack off, and talk about masturbation a lot.

so he told me he actually likes me. he is not gay, but might be bi. he told me he fantasizes about me when he jacks off all the time. he even asks for my permission to, but i dont the same feeling for him.

heres the point. im kinda confused. he asked me if we could be more than friends. he wants to jack me off and give me oral. what sould I do. should I stop hanging out with him? has anybody else been in a similar situation? can you gve me advice?

Contra
January 21st, 2011, 07:47 PM
That is really up to you, if you don't share the same feelings for him, you should stop and say no. I'm not saying you should stop hanging around with him, but just not doing the things he want to.

tyler007
January 21st, 2011, 11:57 PM
NO you should not stop hanging out with your friend because he told you he might be bi, and fantasizes about you. That is just crasy. But if you dont want him to jo you off then you just say so. (you might like it my freind and i do it too) BUT stay his freind and still hang out and do stuff with him,,, dont leave him just because he told you hes bi. Thats just not right, in my opinon.
Let me know if you want more advice on this. message me

Brandon K
January 22nd, 2011, 12:22 AM
its up to you. if it was me i would experiment

Sebastian Michaelis
January 22nd, 2011, 01:49 AM
NO you should not stop hanging out with your friend because he told you he might be bi, and fantasizes about you. That is just crasy. But if you dont want him to jo you off then you just say so. (you might like it my freind and i do it too) BUT stay his freind and still hang out and do stuff with him,,, dont leave him just because he told you hes bi. Thats just not right, in my opinon.
Let me know if you want more advice on this. message me

its up to you. if it was me i would experiment

That is really up to you, if you don't share the same feelings for him, you should stop and say no. I'm not saying you should stop hanging around with him, but just not doing the things he want to.

I agree. do what you want to or feel comfortable with but you should never end a friendship over a persons sexuality

nick
January 22nd, 2011, 03:30 AM
I would agree that it would be unkind to ditch your friend because he's bi.

Its a bit odd for him to tell you that he fantasizes about you when taking a wank, but then if you masturbate together I guess that has left horny images in his mind. He was probably telling you in the hope that you might say you have the same fantasies for him.

Its entirely up to you if you want to allow him to pleasure you in other ways, loads of guys do that without being gay or bi, a hand is a hand whatever sex the arm its attached too, and a mouth is a mouth if you see what I mean. But if you dont like the idea then just say you'd rather keep things as they are and not do anything more. If you do allow him to do those things he will be hoping that you will return the favour.

Donkey
January 22nd, 2011, 05:28 AM
Kind of a personal decision, one we can't really help you with

Darkhorse
January 22nd, 2011, 07:04 AM
Like the others have said don't leave him cuz he's bi or cuz he like you just let him off gently tell explain to him that you don't have the same feelings but you still want to be friends.

merrad14
January 22nd, 2011, 09:58 AM
I think just go with it... you are one hell lucky kid to have that happen to you... just experiment a little we all do...

smitty35
January 22nd, 2011, 11:42 AM
If i were you i would do it. but if you dont want to you just tell him that you dont want to do that and that you still want to be his friend.

Cudder
January 22nd, 2011, 12:30 PM
I would do it if I were you. It would feel good to be jacked off by someone else. But it's really up to you, and if you want to go farther with experimenting

The Dudeh
January 22nd, 2011, 02:53 PM
If you're up for it, go for it. I'm sure it'd be fun :P But don't abandon your friend just because he's bi - that's something I can imagine all people who come out dread.

Benny.
January 23rd, 2011, 05:35 AM
I would do it personally, but if you don't want to then tell him! He's not going to mind, and I'm sure you would be able to carry on as if nothing was wrong :)

Hokage
January 23rd, 2011, 09:23 PM
It's really all up to you I guess you would have to think about it for a while then make up your mind and tell him how you do feel about it.

austin callahan
January 23rd, 2011, 11:36 PM
ya its bondingg duhhhhhh lol

Mrs.KermitTheFrogx
January 24th, 2011, 04:55 PM
I dont really agree with the exsperimenting things
if he has feelings for you and you exsperiment with him
he might think feel the same way
and this could lead to even more complicated thingss
but i dont think you should end a friendship over his sexuality
how would you like it if the tables turnedd ? Good luck hunnieex