Mixed Signals?

[Necroxfiendx07]

So i finally started moving on after my ex of a year and a half left me after takog me back again. She said her parents got involved and it would be easoer for me this way. Anywaya i got a new girl, and i broke up with her after a few days, it just wasn't going to work. Out of no where my ex IM's me. First time after ignoring me for 3 weeks. She wanted to see if i'm ok because her aunt (who still talks to me) saw my string of depressing status's on facebook. Anyways, she told me to call her, so i did. And it was exactly whati expected, we flirted a lot, laughed at funny past memories together, and once again she was bashing her boyfriend and praising me as the highest standard in her book. Saying she loved the things i did that he doesnt do, how attractive she finds me, etc. But also said things like, if i ever need girl advice to go to her, and that she'll cherish our memories forever. And when i hinted at wanting to be with her, she said "you want your cake and to eat it too". I dont understand what shes trying to say with all this. If she truly feels this way, then why arent we together and why is she with that other guy? I joked around about going gay since my relationships werent working, and she joked "good! That way you wont be with any other girl!". I just dont get it. Is this her way of telling me the future is a possibility or something? Cause she knows i still have strong feelings for her. Maybe if she breaks up with this guy ill get my chance again? Ugh.

[Contra]

It's very weird that she's acting like that... I think maybe she still nourishes some feelings for you, because I mean, you have dated for quite some time.

In my opinion, you should talk to her about your feelings and hers, to find out if there's still a chance with her and if she is willing to leave her current boyfriend. If she's not ready for that, then it will be time to move on. But I really think you should clear this whole situation, before doing something like that.

[Kaius]

Tbh I actually know how you mean when you say she ignored you for three weeks. Mine is doing the same, she hasn't spoken to me properly since the day she broke up with me. But generally if shes calling you to see if you're ok then she must still care about you some amount, it just might not be in the same way as it used to be. She's probably confused about how she feels about you herself. Whether she cares as a friend or more than a friend etc. Don't hold your hopes up and try to just keep it to the back of your mind, something could happen, but on the other hand it might not. As i said last time, if you need to talk to me you know how to find me, best of luck.

[Necroxfiendx07]

Yeah i really dont know what to take from it. Last night i told her id text her today, and before i got the chance to she ended up calling me first. Maybe things are starting to look up.