boyfriend

[phish]

I'm bi and want to find a boy to be with. I haven't come out at school for obvious reasons, though I'd like to find people, where and how could I do that?

[Lord_Cosby 13]

You know,I actually have the same exact question, I really want/need a boyfriend, not openly, but still

[Tristin.]

without coming out, your gonna have an issue. i can only sugest you think about what yyou really want to do. you may find a boy, who accepts the secret, but will he be forever happy with you in the closet?

[Lord_Cosby 13]

I mean I personally don't wanna come out to everybody (I've came out to a few people) just yet, and have to deal with everybody's opinion shift towards me yet,but if I were to find a boyfriend, I'd come out to more people so the relationship could be less restrained. I don't know what to do

[Myrnodin]

You know, being bi or straight, there is something that is transversal for both orientations, and that is "Love". Of course you have to meet new people in order to find that special one, but there is no need to haste it or try to force it. When the time is right you will meet someone which whom you will fall in love regardless of its gender. I dont like labels, but if you are really bi, then the best thing you can do is be patient.

[metoo]

I dont know...the hard part, unless you are completely open/ free/ unafraid, is how do you know the other person is bi/gay as well. its very awkward to approach someone that you may not be close with or know that well. It can be dangerous as well. I guess it becomes easier the more you do it.

Once you make a friend/boyfriend what you do in private and how you act in public is between you both.

[CaptainObvious]

frankly, it's very difficult to meet other people who are relationship-eligible without coming out. if you're not comfortable with that, you'll have to accept at least some difficulty. gay-straight alliance clubs can be a decent in-school venue (subject to the fact that some people perceive all members of such clubs as gay anyways), or gay/bi social organizations outside of school as well.

[blackmusicbox215]

I came out to a bunch of people. I'm pretty sure most of the freshman class knows it now, but whatever. I really want/need a boyfriend to. I always post on this one website how I would love one. I think they would know me better than a girl, since were both guys. I just really need a guy. I can see myself dating guys, I'm bi, and girls. I just feel a guy would be better. Now you can see if you can form some kind of LGBT club at school, people are starting one in mine, and have a bunch of people gather there. It can be a place where you can meet people that you didn't know were bi or gay. Also it might lead to some kinda relationship.

[Modus Operandi]

I think the idea of joining a Gay-Straight Alliance is a good bet for not having to come out but still possibly meet someone.