View Full Version : I Came Out.
Pudd
January 19th, 2011, 07:34 PM
I sent my mum an email with the details to receive while I'm at school.
I'm really really nervous.
Vonn
January 19th, 2011, 07:36 PM
Good luck.
ITSGUCCITIME
January 19th, 2011, 07:36 PM
Awe be sure to tell what happen!!
Sire
January 19th, 2011, 08:48 PM
Be sure to tell us what happens :D. But on the off-chance it goes badly, VT is here for you :)
Zazu
January 19th, 2011, 08:53 PM
Well done mate, isn't the easiest thing to do :)
Lord_Cosby 13
January 20th, 2011, 03:20 AM
That's a brave thing to do, keep us up on the details of the outcome :-) Best of luck
Alexithymia
January 20th, 2011, 09:23 AM
That's nice. It's hard sometimes. But in the end, you'll be glad you did. Good luck! :) Keep us posted
Tristin.
January 20th, 2011, 10:29 AM
Good luck, if you need to talk, just drop me a line :) x
ccrunner
January 20th, 2011, 11:07 AM
exactly what sire said and if it does and you want it to be more private you can pm me
Pudd
January 20th, 2011, 11:48 AM
She took it very well.
She just asked what made me think I was pansexual.
Then asked what furry meant, I showed her my profile and she was ok with it.
She said "I don't mind, as long as you don't go round shagging dogs"
Then she asked some more questions and that was it.
I'm still very shaky and dry-mouthed though.
EDIT: I think she's telling my dad now, I'm not sure.
I don't mind if she is. That's one of the main reasons I told her, is so that I didn't have to tell my dad.
EDIT: She did tell dad.
I went downstairs and he said to me:
"JAY! I'm not going to take the piss out of you for that!"
So, it went well overall. What a relief.
PJay
January 20th, 2011, 11:58 AM
Big day for you huh? Congrats on making a big step forward in your life.
Lord_Cosby 13
January 20th, 2011, 12:33 PM
It's great to hear that she took it well, that's always a touchy subject. I wish you all the best :-)
Pudd
January 20th, 2011, 12:35 PM
Thanks for all the support guys! :D
Tristin.
January 20th, 2011, 12:36 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
im glad it went well
XXXX
Sire
January 20th, 2011, 05:00 PM
Congratz :D
Infidelitas
January 21st, 2011, 05:45 AM
i felt much better when i came out
greekboy
January 21st, 2011, 04:13 PM
That was very brave and I'm glad that it went well for you. Congratulations.
tyler007
January 21st, 2011, 08:08 PM
Hey Congrat on coming out, and having it go so well for you.
I think the email was an interesting way to do it, and break the ice, and give mom some time to think before you all spoke. Nice going.
Severus Snape
January 21st, 2011, 09:33 PM
She took it very well.
She just asked what made me think I was pansexual.
Then asked what furry meant, I showed her my profile and she was ok with it.
She said "I don't mind, as long as you don't go round shagging dogs"
Then she asked some more questions and that was it.
I'm still very shaky and dry-mouthed though.
EDIT: I think she's telling my dad now, I'm not sure.
I don't mind if she is. That's one of the main reasons I told her, is so that I didn't have to tell my dad.
EDIT: She did tell dad.
I went downstairs and he said to me:
"JAY! I'm not going to take the piss out of you for that!"
So, it went well overall. What a relief.
Christ. I wish I was as brave as you.
Sebastian Michaelis
January 21st, 2011, 11:26 PM
congrats im so jealous u def have more balls then me
Voodoo
January 23rd, 2011, 11:30 AM
The email was the best idea I've ever heard mate, Congratulations for coming out though, most teens don't tell anyone or they end up getting caught in a sexual act. The email thing is an awesome idea since it gives time for you and your mom to think before you talk.
LilTurtle
January 23rd, 2011, 12:50 PM
dont worry.... its all good. things seem to work out just fine. you'll see.... i promise.
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zebravomt
January 23rd, 2011, 01:01 PM
im so happy for you, its so hard but i bet you feel better now. your very very lucky that they felt fine about it. some people try to slap the gay out of you lol... stay strong!
Sosaku
January 23rd, 2011, 03:51 PM
Congrats!!! I thought of E-mailing my mother and father before i told them, but i though that would have been like breaking up with someone via e-mail. So i didn't, i waited until the right time, omg, my heart was racing and i almost cried, (also being an empath didn't help either so that started to make me cry because she wanted too...anyway) i havent told my dad, because a year ago, he threatend to never talk to me if i was gay, wiccan or on drugs, until i was fixed....
Fourth Dimension
January 24th, 2011, 11:57 AM
Congrats Dude
Ambrosia
January 24th, 2011, 12:08 PM
Congrats buddy!
And yes, please don't go around "shagging dogs" =P
ErykaInspire.
January 24th, 2011, 12:18 PM
Congratulations! I'm happy for you(:
OutOfOrder
January 24th, 2011, 09:24 PM
She took it very well.
She just asked what made me think I was pansexual.
Then asked what furry meant, I showed her my profile and she was ok with it.
She said "I don't mind, as long as you don't go round shagging dogs"
Then she asked some more questions and that was it.
I'm still very shaky and dry-mouthed though.
EDIT: I think she's telling my dad now, I'm not sure.
I don't mind if she is. That's one of the main reasons I told her, is so that I didn't have to tell my dad.
EDIT: She did tell dad.
I went downstairs and he said to me:
"JAY! I'm not going to take the piss out of you for that!"
So, it went well overall. What a relief.
Great to hear that this went well for you! I'm still deciding whether I'm "gay", "bi", or just have my hormones raging for anything that moves... This might be me some time sooner or later... Once again, Congrats!
Cryofthewolf
January 24th, 2011, 10:57 PM
Here's hoping all goes well for you. Congratulations on having the stones to go through with it. We're here for you no matter how things go. <3
spw184
January 27th, 2011, 06:51 PM
I wonder if emos are just in-the-closet gays O-o
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