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Vurtine
January 19th, 2011, 11:58 AM
You see, i've always found that I have feelings for men and women alike; but I don't like penis or vaginas, which are starting to confuse me. I think they are both absolutely disgusting. I do prefer men, but I only like their faces and bodies etc, not the sexual side of them and likewise with women.

Is this normal?

PJay
January 19th, 2011, 12:17 PM
No its not normal (as in typical) but I guess you probably know that.

Assuming you are a sexual person (i.e. you get horny and like masturbating) then it might be helpful to talk to a professional therapist about it : it could be they can help you. For example I know straight guys who really don't like the look of female genitals, and I'm sure there are girls out there who don't like the look of men's. It doesn't have to be a deal breaker.

Sire
January 19th, 2011, 05:57 PM
Possibly your'e Asexual? (in the need for sex sense, not the grow a tumor and it becomes a baby kind )

ITSGUCCITIME
January 19th, 2011, 11:25 PM
No its not normal (as in typical) but I guess you probably know that.

Assuming you are a sexual person (i.e. you get horny and like masturbating) then it might be helpful to talk to a professional therapist about it : it could be they can help you. For example I know straight guys who really don't like the look of female genitals, and I'm sure there are girls out there who don't like the look of men's. It doesn't have to be a deal breaker.

That's a good point

Lord_Cosby 13
January 20th, 2011, 09:51 AM
Asexuality seems to be a good label here, since you're not interested in the sexual side of either gender.

ccrunner
January 20th, 2011, 11:09 AM
yes its completly normal i am in a small stage about that i think you could be asexual but dont define your self yet

josh93
January 20th, 2011, 01:44 PM
Yeah it is normal. Everyone goes through a stage that they are confused and haveing to deal with thier sexuality or oreintaion.