Gay?

[OutOfOrder]

Hey everyone,

I began to notice one of my very close guy friends recently. I find everything he does to be funny and cute now (I didn't really find that before). In addition, I've begun to notice his body a lot more, especially his ass and legs. I've began to fantasize about me and him kissing and having sex (although I'm not sure how that would work). We have known each other for a long time, but I never saw him this way before.

Just some background on me: I've had two girlfriends in my Freshman and Sophomore year at school, but I'm not dating anyone right now. I still like to look at girls' asses and legs (these are what I find the most attractive). I don't see any other guys I know in the same way as I see my friend mentioned above.

I'm just wondering what this means.

Thanks!

[Lord_Cosby 13]

Maybe you're just a little curious about other guys, you know, experimenting so you can find yourself. The reason you only feel it for him is probably because you guys are really close and that's what connects you to him.

[OutOfOrder]

Maybe you're just a little curious about other guys, you know, experimenting so you can find yourself. The reason you only feel it for him is probably because you guys are really close and that's what connects you to him.

Thanks for replying!

Some more information:
I don't find any other guys attractive at all (even ones that some of my girl friends think are attractive).
Whenever me and my friend get together at a party, we always go to some room and wrestle or tickle each other on the bed. I usually end up on the top with my hands on his chest and our lower bodies touching. Or other times hes upside down and his ass is touching my lower areas with my hands on his back. I find both of these situations really really hot and like to think of them sometimes...

[PJay]

Well my boyfriend had a couple of girlfriends but I think they were more for show as he's gay, but maybe partly to try it out kind of thing. You'll see lots of threads about this and the best advice is not to worry about labels, just enjoy what you enjoy.

[nick]

No one can tell you for certain what it means, only time and your own feelings can tell you that. It sounds like normal curiousity to me, your hormones are going crazy and it can play havock for a while. If you reach a stage where you would seriously think about dating a guy, having a loving relationship, not just fooling around a bit, then that's when you have to start reconsidering your sexuality.

[OutOfOrder]

Well my boyfriend had a couple of girlfriends but I think they were more for show as he's gay, but maybe partly to try it out kind of thing. You'll see lots of threads about this and the best advice is not to worry about labels, just enjoy what you enjoy.

Wow, that's great advice! I'm just worried about what will happen if he doesn't like me the same way I like him... I don't want to tell him in case he feels all awkward and starts to think that us touching and playing is something he should worry about. He's an open-minded guy, but I just don't want anything to really change...

[PJay]

Wow, that's great advice! I'm just worried about what will happen if he doesn't like me the same way I like him... I don't want to tell him in case he feels all awkward and starts to think that us touching and playing is something he should worry about. He's an open-minded guy, but I just don't want anything to really change...

Just take it slow. As a friend he'll probably be ok if you tell him you feel something toward 'some guys'. Give it a bit of time to sink in you'll probably find he asks what you think of him and stuff. Just don't rush anything, or you could lose a friend.