View Full Version : Being "curious"
DanK
January 17th, 2011, 10:16 PM
So i think im in that stage of being curious... I don't like it :(
Im pretty sure im str8...
any idea how long being curious lasts?
thx
pawn12
January 17th, 2011, 10:56 PM
probably a few years
VerizoniPhone
January 17th, 2011, 10:59 PM
It's prob because ur afraid of what ur friends wud think if u were bi. Be who YOU wanna be. We R who we R :p
heyitsjosh321
January 17th, 2011, 11:13 PM
I just hit my curious period last year. It is starting to wear off now that I got a girlfriend.
merrad14
January 18th, 2011, 01:56 AM
ive been curious for about 5 yrs now... and im now BI and i love it... just go with however you feel... dont go against fate... :) you will be fine... ;)
Skeptical Bear
January 18th, 2011, 01:58 AM
From what I've heard, it should wear off when you come to be 20 or somewhat. Not really sure.
Nathan_B
January 18th, 2011, 02:08 AM
like others have said, you might be afraid of what other think or whatever. Just do what feels right. I did that and I figured out I was bi. so do what feels right be who your true self
gills93
January 18th, 2011, 07:04 AM
from what i know from others it can be different for everyone for me it was 4 years where as i've had friends were its only been a few weeks
sdude
January 18th, 2011, 07:16 AM
I have read for some it just lasts a few years, for others, well into their 20's or so..depends I think on what you end up trying!
curiousboy333
January 18th, 2011, 08:09 AM
im in the that curious stage too and i fantasize about guys when i jack off cause it turns me on. think its just a stage we go through.
indieboy
January 18th, 2011, 02:01 PM
every boy will go through this curious stage, most turn out straight at the end but some choose not to. all is perfectly acceptable these days and you should just be who you wanna be. its your life so live it your way.
it will last a few years probs.
=)
grstl
January 18th, 2011, 02:33 PM
If being curious means simply trying stuff to see what it's like, then I suppose you could end up saying "been there, done that" and stop.
If being curious means wanting to check out what each guy is hiding in their pants and seeing what they would do with you....then I doubt you will outgrow it. Is it the act or each fresh, unique opportunity that makes you want to do it?For me it is the guy and the fun we can have.
YouCalledMeSugar
January 18th, 2011, 03:52 PM
honestly...there honestly is no like "time-span" for how long you could be curious. I personally have struggled with this for awhile now but i have come to terms with being bi. just try what feels right and you'll end up with an answer:)
Houtz96
January 18th, 2011, 04:55 PM
I honestly think i just left that stage. I dont know how to explain it, i just feel different in my situation of sexuality(straight). Good thing i guess :D
smitty35
January 18th, 2011, 04:55 PM
it does go away as you get older and more mature, probably few years or months, depends on the person
Bluesman
January 18th, 2011, 04:57 PM
That varies from person to person. It will probably last as long as you're in puberty, but as you get older you'll probably get less and less curious.
DanK
January 18th, 2011, 05:59 PM
thanks everyone :)
DanK
January 18th, 2011, 06:01 PM
is it normal to get hard looking at a guy while being curious? :/
tyler007
January 18th, 2011, 11:25 PM
Hey like other have said, i know thaqt im in the curious stage, and i have acted on it sometimes with freinds. I think its something all guys go thur, its nothing to worry about. If you really dont like get then get and keep a gf until it passes.....
But yes its normal to get hard when thinking about sex.. or sexy thing. and sometime hormones just take over and we have no control of getting hard.
Its all pretty normal. so dont sweat it.
jason123
January 19th, 2011, 06:22 AM
Don't worry. I may be in the curious stage.
DanK
January 19th, 2011, 02:46 PM
i wish it was easy to get a gf...
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