I'm so confused

[Moai]

I'm really in a nutshell right now, ugh. I'm in a long distance relationship for once, yes go ahead and laugh. I feel unsure if I'm in love with my girlfriend or not, sometimes I feel like I love her, and sometimes I don't. It feels like it kind of died down when we started going out. I only feel physically attracted to her sometimes, but I do really like her personality. I like spending time with her, but I feel like I don't at times because I'm not really with her... I don't know what to do, I can't imagine breaking up with her, she's be so sad, and I don't know what I'd do.

tl;dr: I'm unsure if I truly love her, a lot of "online relationships are bad" stuff is hurting me a lot and messing with my head. I don't know what to do.

Any advice would be heavily appreciated :(

[Charleigh]

Hun... I made the same mistake a couple years back.
Long distance relationships dont usually work out, because you cant be face to face alot of the time and spend quality you and her time, instead its over the phone, msn or facebook or something, right? I think that in order to make a long distance realationship work, you both have to be commited and dedicate yourself to it, otherwise you can easily drift apart.
When you say you love her sometimes, but sometimes you dont, maybe your not ready for a relationship, or maybe a long distance relationship isnt for you. I think you would be better off dating someone near you, or even seeing your girlfriend more often and spending more time with her.
Good luck, hope everything goes well ^^
:hug: