Please tell me what to do :/

[Tanner]

ok. so this weekend i had my guy friend over. usually he is always flirting with me and im flirting back. right? so, he came over, and like messed around, and im just not sure if he is serious or not. because once, he and i were in the basement, and the lights were turned off. and he help my hand, like fingers locked, and like snagged my pants down. im not sure how to react, so i did basically the same thing. so then we went to a house being built, and just sat there, and he got real close, but im afraid to make a move, because im not sure if hes serious or not. so later in the night, we drank a little, and just laid in my bed, basically cuddling. me laying my head on his chest. idk what to do,or if he is serious or not. he play's around with me, grabbing my butt and stuff, so i just cant figure him out. and during that night, we were playing around, and playing pool, and i would be behind him, and he would purposely move his butt for me to grab it. and i would like put my package in the hold to distract him, as a joke, and he would be staring. and i would bend down, and he would just stare at my ass. hmm. we were alone. i just don't know what to do! i had the opportunity plenty of times, and when we were in my bed i like rubbed his package with my arm, and he just sat there. like woah! but stopped me. Jesus. i really don't know what to do. please give your advice. should i plain out kiss him, grab his junk or something? and he did keep asking me if i was bi, just because i like flashed porn to him as a joke, and i looked at this one gay one, not knowing it was gay. i really dont know what to do. please help me. :/

[tyler007]

I think that if your laying in bed and cuddling thats pretty good start. Maybe you should just give it some more time, and see how the whole thing progress. If you really want to move it up, then the next time hes over and your in bed or watching porn, just say something about being horny and wanted to jerk off, you can be serious about it of funny and see what happens.. my friends and i started out the same way, pretty much, and we started jo by watching porn together.

[Lord_Cosby 13]

I understand why you're confused here, with all the mixed signals and whatnot, but if you guys are actually like holding hands and cuddling, I'd say there's probably more to the relationship, you just have to open that door and hope it leads somewhere. I think Tyler's idea of watching porn and saying you want to jerk off is a good place to start,I think it would work. And tell him your bi (if you are), that's another good place to start cause it'll give him more of a go ahead to make a move. Best of luck to ya, tell us if anything turns out :-)

[gills93]

in my opinion i think that ur best option would be to ask him if he was bi-curious because really doing something like plain out kiss or grabbing him just isnt the right move for anyone and by asking in ur getting straight to the point and no confusion

[sdude]

Assuming you like this guy and really want to do stuff with him, ask him what he wants to do...and even what he has done before? Yeah, porn and j/o talk should get him going..it would me!lol...