Fantasy

[CaliKiDD]

is it wierd to want to have relations with a guy? Do the feelings go away? Could I be bi?

[VerizoniPhone]

It's not weird at all. I think it is so cute when a guy wants to be with another. And yea ur prob bi

[luconfu]

It's pretty normal i'm guessing almost every guy has them.

[Vonn]

Everybody has fantasies about the same gender. Everybody. Some just have them more often than others.

[cory1989]

Im sorry to say verizoniphone but I dissagree with your assumption having "feelings" for another of the same sex does not mean you are Bi nor does it mean you are gay, this could be just a simple case of curiosity, looking to see what he really wants. I felt the same way once but turned out i was wrong i am attracted to women.

[blackmusicbox215]

You could just be curious. During puberty we want to see other people. As for me, I really am bi because I have had many encounters with guys, and I love it. But also I like women. I had a girlfriend.

[friendlyperson]

there's nothing wrong with having a guy fantasy...

im bisexual (in the closet) and i have many gay fantasy's, but even if you are straight its fine to be curious or even experiment...

[PJay]

Im sorry to say verizoniphone but I dissagree with your assumption having "feelings" for another of the same sex does not mean you are Bi nor does it mean you are gay, this could be just a simple case of curiosity, looking to see what he really wants. I felt the same way once but turned out i was wrong i am attracted to women.

I think this is the issue with using a label. its not as clear cut as straight / bi / gay.

From reading VT mainly it seems to me some people are just kind of open minded and would be ok with making a close friend feel good, but not actually be attracted to guys normally. Other people have sexy thoughts about guys but wouldn't want to kiss them or feel romantic about them. And people tend to change as they get older (get more stuck in their ways or some people get bored and want to explore more etc).

Just be who you are, do what feels good to you.

[randy.boii]

im bi and nothings wrong wiff ittt

[Eddie.37]

nah, I have male fantasies but they just stay like that hopefully

[CaptainObvious]

Im sorry to say verizoniphone but I dissagree with your assumption having "feelings" for another of the same sex does not mean you are Bi nor does it mean you are gay, this could be just a simple case of curiosity, looking to see what he really wants. I felt the same way once but turned out i was wrong i am attracted to women.

Actually, that's normally exactly what it means. Attracted to both genders = at least somewhat bisexual. The whole "curiosity" thing is just a way for people who feel uncomfortable labeling themselves as even somewhat bisexual to avoid doing so despite having feelings for guys. Curiosity is "I don't know how this will feel or if I'll be into stuff with a guy, but I'd like to try". Curiosity is not "I'm attracted to girls lots more and will probably end up with one, but I'm still attracted to guys as well" - that's called bisexuality (and many bisexuals are much more attracted to one gender or another). Simple as.

[Fact]

Puberty :arrow2: Sexuality

Wanting to have a relationship with guys, to me, seems like a clear indication that you have a form of romantic interest towards people of the same gender as you, meaning you definitely have bisexual qualities.

[ccrunner]

i have the slight urge to as well but i hope they go away because i wish for a family in the future

[grstl]

I am gay, tried to be straight, ended up gay but still enjoying some girl stuff. Don't worry, you will settle down at some point to either, or, or some of both. Don't stress and don't feel guilty. Those are the bigger issues.

[death_to_my_heart]

It's not weird at all. I think it is so cute when a guy wants to be with another. And yea ur prob bi

i agree with him ^^^^ hahaha its ok to be bi

[Mssquirtyorgasm]

I'm straight and still dream of eating out a girl..

[niceguy90]

you could be. there is nothing wrong with that.

[TheBlackRose321]

It all depends on how strong the feelings are I asume

[Stronger]

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