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OlivaA
January 16th, 2011, 01:43 AM
Me and my younger sister who is 11 have been going at each other throat for a while,it just driving me crazy. This problem started this year,when she started school in my same campus, she is in middle school but her middle school is in the same campus as my high school since we go to an all girl private school. She is cheerleader just like me, she copies me in everything from my moves to my clothes,I asked her to please not to follow me everywhere but she does.Like today,I came into my room and I found her snooping through my clothes and take them, she was also taking some of my panties that she liked.Like last month,we were forced by my parents to share a room as punishment because we kept fighting and my parents were tired of it. And that just created more conflict.

I asked my older sister who is 22, what I should do, she told me talk to her. I tried talk to her but she won't listen to me,she will just deny everything or just say she is just trying be like me and there is nothing wrong with that. During dinner,I started giving her silent treatment and just avoiding talking to her and that just got me in trouble with my parents.What can I do?I love my younger sister but she is driving me crazy.Please help.
lipstick_kisses23
January 16th, 2011, 02:59 AM
it's hard since your parents just want you guys to keep the peace, but it's obviously not working. try having a talk with your parents separately maybe they'll talk about it with each other and then they'll talk with your sister about her habit
OlivaA
January 16th, 2011, 03:51 AM
I already try to talk to my parents,my Ma talked to my sister but she continued doing it. If I do anything,I get in trouble because I'm older and I should know better.I'm just tired,I want her to respect my personal space and just stop trying be like me.
lipstick_kisses23
January 18th, 2011, 05:38 PM
Then look to a higher power like a clinical psychologist ;) these people know how to deal with family brats with a firm hand and GREAT advice =], trust me I know lol
scuba steve
January 18th, 2011, 05:56 PM
I already try to talk to my parents,my Ma talked to my sister but she continued doing it. If I do anything,I get in trouble because I'm older and I should know better.I'm just tired,I want her to respect my personal space and just stop trying be like me.

Hit her a dig in the mouth, that's what my cousin did to stop me from copying him when i was younger... and it worked. :rolleyes:
Probably not the best idea, but you did say talking was more or less out.
Quick_Sylver
January 18th, 2011, 07:08 PM
Be honored. She sees you as a role model. If it bugs you to have her in your room, get a lock for your door. Its not that big a deal honestly.
TheMatrix
January 23rd, 2011, 02:55 AM
and i thought my sister was a copycat...
Be honored. She sees you as a role model. If it bugs you to have her in your room, get a lock for your door. Its not that big a deal honestly.
i thought they shared a room.