Telling my girlfriend im Bi-Sexual

[Heisen8erg]

Well, ive had this girlfriend for over 2 years now, and ive known her for 6 years. We have developed a strong relationship and we are very good friends, but recently i have been dreaming about men and i think im Bi Sexual. I have no problem with this, but i dont know what to tell my girlfriend. I cant "Just tell her and hope she accepts me" because its more then just that. This girl is not only my girlfriend but my best friend, and i dont know what im going to do if i loose her. I dont wanna risk her hating me for being Bi because she is semi-against that kind of stuff. I know most of you will say "Tell her and if shes a true friend she will accept you" but i cant just do that. If i loose her i feel like im going start cutting myself. Please help me.

[TheSleepingInsomniac]

Well try testing the water, when you bring up Bi celebrity's and see how she reacts or maybe a Bi friend. Another trick is to show you support the LGBT Community and see if she does too. hope this helps but if she is as good a friend as you say she is she WILL accept you, sorry i know you don't want to hear that.

[nick]

I dont see why you need to tell her. If you have a girlfriend you shouldnt be thinking about doing anything sexual with another guy. I mean its OK to fantasize, but not to actually take any action about it because that would be cheating on her, and its no more right to cheat if you're bi than it is if you are straight. However, if she loves you and can trust you not to do anything behind her back, I dont see that it should matter to her that much if you did decide to tell her.

[Lord C]

^ Nick's absolutely right. There's no need to act on it right now.

Also, dreams don't mean much man with lots of hormones and shit, you should wait until you're absolutely sure you are bi before making a decision

[Powerline]

Like Nick said.

I wouldnt jump into it an tell her unless you plan to break up with her so you can start dating guys I would just keep it to yourself. She might think that you are wanting to date guys and that wont end well. So I would just let it go and focus on the relationship you have with her now

[TheBlackRose321]

If you tell her that you are and she stays with you that you two are truly in love. But if the breaks up with you then she dosent fully love you for who you are.