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cyates
January 15th, 2011, 01:37 PM
is it normal to be attracted to be someone whos older then you? like im 14 and i like a 17 year old, and is it normal to be sexually attracted to your best best girl friend
Kaius
January 15th, 2011, 01:45 PM
Perfectly normal. My ex was 14 when we started dating and i was 17. As long as you're happy together what does it matter? :)
Hansa
January 15th, 2011, 01:46 PM
first, it is normal to be attracted to an older guy. girls are a little bit faster in "development", guys somtetimes seem a bit retarded :D
it's said that girls are about 3 years in advance of a boy.

and don't worry, thinking of your best friend in a sexual way does not make you instantly lesbian :)
cyates
January 15th, 2011, 01:47 PM
but it is weird.. because other people will think its odd, also she is old enough to have sex, im not so that makes it weird?
cyates
January 15th, 2011, 01:48 PM
first, it is normal to be attracted to an older guy. girls are a little bit faster in "development", guys somtetimes seem a bit retarded :D
it's said that girls are about 3 years in advance of a boy.

and don't worry, thinking of your best friend in a sexual way does not make you instantly lesbian :)

IM A GUY LOL :l
Hansa
January 15th, 2011, 01:50 PM
:eek: god, I'm sorry :D

but you're okay though ^^
cyates
January 15th, 2011, 01:51 PM
i dont get it hansa lol? <3
Hansa
January 15th, 2011, 01:53 PM
I meant there's nothing wrong with you and your thoughts and feelings
cyates
January 15th, 2011, 01:56 PM
ah ok then lol :L when u said you are ok though, i thought you ment my looks lol :L
PJay
January 15th, 2011, 03:04 PM
Yeah i guess. I almost went out with someone a LOT older cos they lied about their age and looked ok online and were nice to talk to.
Cryofthewolf
January 15th, 2011, 05:03 PM
Completely normal. I'm attracted to girls/guys that are older than me all the time. You have nothing to be ashamed of. :-)
MrZero
January 15th, 2011, 05:27 PM
I don't see anything wrong with being attracted to 'anyone' frankly of whatever age:D.
A relationship is a bit more tricky tho, at that age it might be a little weird if she's older then you - it's usually the other way around, probably for a reason.
Also 14 isn't necessarily too young for sex, i've heard people do that, i think it depends on the person. If it seems like it can work out go for it!:yes: