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xhelgrindx
January 15th, 2011, 12:43 PM
So my gf is deciding which college to go to and i told her that i dont want her to make her decision based on me and she said but your part of my life and it will be based on you like she doesnt want go to far away. I said I dont want to hold you back though and she said every bf or gf does and i asked her how i do and she said she cant go see movies with guys or go to a party with single girls because she wouldn't be able to have fun so idk wtf. She all of a sudden wants to go to one of the biggest party schools and i dont understand why those parties arent fun unless your single and you drink and she doesnt even drink or want to so idk im just confused. I mean i wouldnt even want to go to a party like that without her.

ThatScience
January 17th, 2011, 08:54 AM
Tell her that you are not worth bending her plans.
Tell her that long-distance relationships work and that she's either going to live her life with you on the phone/webcam or not at all.

metoo
January 22nd, 2011, 09:22 PM
you told her what you think and feel, so now its up to her. be happy with her decision.