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steve1234
January 15th, 2011, 12:29 PM
So, I like this girl, and have done for a really long time. Shes one of my friends aswell.

I have never liked someone as much as i've liked her, and shes the first person where I can imagine us in a relationship.

The thing is, i'm not very mature for my age, and I am certainly not ready for a relationship. I can barely look after myself, without having to worry about someone else.

I have liked her for a stupidly long time though (nearly 4 years), and I have not told her about my feelings.
She is beautiful and has a great personality, and she hasn't had a serious relationship in the time I have liked her, but I know she is bound to get into a relationship soon, and then I will be annoyed at myself for not doing something earlier.

I really want to tell her how I feel, but is there much point if I don't think i'm ready for a relationship?

Daniel_
January 15th, 2011, 09:02 PM
You never know until you try, so go for it.

steve1234
January 17th, 2011, 11:15 AM
You never know until you try, so go for it.

Thanks, your right :). I know I should, but its easier said than done. :(

Daniel_
January 17th, 2011, 02:45 PM
Thanks, your right :). I know I should, but its easier said than done. :(

Everything is, you just have to take a leap of faith.

Thats why they call it jumping in. ;P

ThatScience
January 18th, 2011, 06:38 AM
Well... Are you worried about not being experianced enough or are you worried that you won't be able to handle it? If you're worried about what she'll think of you just explain to her that you're new to it all. I'm sure she'll understand.
If you don't think you'll handle the situation, I'd put it off for a while. Maybe you'll be more mature 6 months to a year down the track...