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oscarlichen
January 14th, 2011, 09:03 PM
This is a really long story and I don't know if it's supposed to go in sexuality or dating but I just decided to choose this forum. Enjoy this heartbreaking tale, and please please please post some comments to help me. (PS YOU HAVE TO KEEP UP WITH THE NAMES OF MY FRIENDS. THERE'S ALOT.)

This story took place Friday, December 23rd. Right before winter break. This story is about a boy, of course. A boy that will never ever like me back. It started when I saw him the first day of school, I didn't really pay attention to him. Until a couple of weeks ago. It was lunch, and one of my best girl friends was talking to me about him, how much she liked him. His name was Kyle. So anyway, I was sitting at my table in lunch with a bunch of other girls, and he goes to talk to some of his friends at another lunch table near ours....

Before the story goes on, I need to explain something that happened only a couple days before this. This really ugly bitch named Jen who i've always been nice to so I have no idea why she's so mean to me, she asks out this kid named Ed who is way hotter than she is. So I said that Ed could do better, it doesn't seem like that much of a big deal. So Jen and her friend Sydney decided to team up and make my life as horrible as possible.

So Kyle was over at the lunch table near our lunch table. Sydney was sitting at my table for some reason. So I said to my friend Alyssa " Oh my god number 54 is so gorgeous", I was saying his number because I forgot his name and I was too lazy to remember, and luckily he had his basketball jersey from his basketball uniform on which was 54 or something like that. So she says "NUMBER 54?" and I go "..yeah." Of course Sydney hears me.

So I one of the lunch cashiers is my good family friend, her name is Marie. Usually during lunch I go to Marie's station with a couple of other people that are there regularly because we like to hangout there. So right after I said he's hot, I decided to go to Marie's station because I was bored. My table gets pretty boring. When I came back I went to my friend Delia's table to hangout. She was sitting at the table near the windows with her friend Sam( He's a boy who I really hate). I proceed to tell Delia for some reason about me liking Kyle and bla bla bla, because of course out of all my friends, Delia is my BEST friend. She deserves to know. At the end I sighed in relief, "I'm glad nobody will ever find out about it". Little did I know that when Sydney was listening to my conversation that I was having with Alyssa she was thinking about telling Jen. Almost ironically, right after I was done talking to Delia, someone came up to me. He asked if I liked Kyle. I said no. Kyle then came up. Then another person. And another. All asking the same questions.

It was only human nature that I lied. I had to say no. Over and over and over again. And then I took my lie to a whole nother' level. I said that I already had a boyfriend, that I was taking to the movies and hooking up with that night. Of course that was a lie, being that I hadn't had nor did I want to have one for a long time after my past experiences. So the whole lunchroom laughed and laughed, and after that we went about our regular day.

Every single day, Kyle looked at me with the same look. Freaked out. Eventually he learned to ignore me. He still doesn't talk to me. My friend Jean talked to him after lunch. She told me he "Thought he was cool because a guy liked him". And now, almost a month after the incident, I still feel like I love him. I do love him. And I know the word love is overused, but I really think I know what love feels like now. Hopeless love. I know he will never ever like me back, he's straight. I don't know what to do. I see him every day in lunch....and gym. He's in my gym class, of course he had to be in my gym class. Anyway, I'm in love with someone who will never love me. Please tell me what I should do. I just don't know anymore.... Thank you.

foreveryoung22
January 15th, 2011, 09:26 PM
Hi! I saw that no one answered this question and I'll decide to give it a go. I'm warning you though, I'm NOT an expert on quuestions like these. Maybe try to get to know him better....? Approach him yourself, maybe get to be acquantinces, and move on from there. And remember, there are other fish in the sea. :)

oscarlichen
January 15th, 2011, 10:31 PM
But he already knows I like him

KillerKing
January 16th, 2011, 06:18 PM
But he already knows I like him

But he doesn't, you said that you lied to him so of course he doesn't know. But, if he really is straight then all you can do is get over it. But i seriously would suggest just telling the truth about him first, and then see what he does.

oscarlichen
January 18th, 2011, 10:58 PM
Butt i'm pretty sure he knows because everyone's telling him thatt.

Ugh I just don't know.

And I can't get over him. I love him. I want to marry him. And not just for the sex or anything, I just love him. His personality, his looks. Ugh.

ThatScience
January 18th, 2011, 11:49 PM
You should not have lied... That was stupid...
After the first lie you should not have lied again... That was VERY stupid...
After that you should not have continued with both lies... That was (and is) VERY VERY stupid...
Tell him... Rip the lies from your life like a bandaid... You need closure or it will eat you alive...

oscarlichen
January 21st, 2011, 08:31 PM
I'm scared.

Contra
January 21st, 2011, 08:57 PM
I'm afraid there is no other way besides getting over him, because from what you said, it doesn't seem like he'll ever love you back.
Or you can try and hang out with him more, explain him the misunderstood that occured and try to be friends with him.

oscarlichen
January 21st, 2011, 09:45 PM
:( but i can't...As I also said, I see him every day...

ikhasgkfjh
January 21st, 2011, 09:47 PM
Its kinda of tough to avoid him seeing as he is in your gym class and you also see him in your lunch period. Try and approach him one day, try and talk to him, try and talk about stuff you think you two have in common. Break the ice a lil bit. You never know you two could become good friends. Try to get to know him better, and just be straight up with him. Lieing just leads to more trouble so try and shy away from doing that. Hope I helped. If you ever need anymore advice feel free to pm or contact me. Hope all goes well my friend.

Contra
January 22nd, 2011, 10:18 AM
You have two choices: either you let things go and hope that your feelings for him get weaker or you talk to him and try to establish a friendship, it's better than nothing! I'd prefer the last one.

Good luck :)

metoo
January 22nd, 2011, 09:04 PM
nothing wrong with having feelings for someone, but if its not mutual you need to move on. whats wrong is being obsessed.
if your open, then you should have told the truth. it wouldnt have changed anything but..... I doubt what your feeling is love, as you hardly know him.

oscarlichen
January 23rd, 2011, 10:42 PM
nothing wrong with having feelings for someone, but if its not mutual you need to move on. whats wrong is being obsessed.
if your open, then you should have told the truth. it wouldnt have changed anything but..... I doubt what your feeling is love, as you hardly know him.\Thanks but i've known him for a while now. 5 months is a lot of time to get to know somebody. Also I just wanted to let you guys know i'm not lying anymore and I actually wrote on my friends wall on facebook that I like him....and alot of people saw it so yeah. But I know i'm obsessed, and I have a problem with that because whenever I become obsessed I don't stop. I do love him though. When you feel that you belong with someone for the rest of your life, when the ony thing that brightens your day is the mention of their name, or just their face, and when you just have that warm feeling that won't go away, you know. I've never felt this way for any other guy i've even actually dated. Even really hot guys are becoming just ordinary people to me. He's the one that I truly do want to be with for the rest of my life. And as I explained above, I don't want him just to have sex or do things. I want him for his personality, etc. That's how I know it's love.

TopGear
January 23rd, 2011, 10:53 PM
Woah buddy, that was alot! hahaha

Anyways, I think you should be truthful about it, let him know and don't be afraid of him knowing. Maybe one day approach him and just get to know him, maybe you and him share more in common then what he thinks or you think.

Mxio
January 28th, 2011, 06:41 PM
omg dude im not makeing fun of you but this sounds just like easy A. :D



(just with a dude)