is life worth it?

[randy.boii]

im fifteen and bi. my name is Randy but thats not important. i was dating is girl gina for a yer and a half... and i couldnt fall inlove with her.. i loved her so much tho. but the fact that i couldnt fall inlove with her scares me. we broke up 2 days ago and im rly hurt... there is nothing wrong with her shes beautiful 17 a model actress sings and writes music. even wrote me my own song =/. shes been crying ever since and so have i. i broke up with her.... i guess my mind is a crule thing... im never been inlove

[pumacat]

It's difficult mate, and I know its hard to put in to perspective but you're only 15 you have plenty of time to work out who you are and what you want. It hurts now I know but it will actually get better. Message me if you want to chat!

[The Dark Lord]

You did the right thing. If you had kept the relationship going, then that would have been much worse.

[MoveAlong]

Puberty For Boys >>> Relationships and Dating

[Sage]

Love is whatever you define it to be. If you felt strongly enough, that, in my book, is more than enough. Just because the two of you broke up doesn't mean you didn't love her. Alas, love does not always last. In fact, being realistic, it usually doesn't. If it's any consolation, you're only fifteen- Yes, when I was your age, that felt like so much of my life had already gone by, but in reality it isn't. You're still very young, and you still have a lot of experiences ahead of you, both good and bad.

[The Joker]

As Sage said, if you do have really positive feelings for her, maybe that should be enough. Not all relationships have to be fueled on a romantic love...I think the fact that you really like her as a friend, but wouldn't mind kissing her or whatnot, might make the relationship last longer. That's what seems to end the relationships of people I know...when they stop being friends, and are just in love.

[Ambrosia]

You're only fifteen. See, I'm not someone who says "You dunno what love is that young!" Because the fact is: You know what love is up to that point. Love gets more in-depth as you grow up though. The problem of being unable to fall in love with her is a bit silly only because you don't NEED to fall in love so early! You have way too long ahead of you to find people and experience all different types.