Magical Moment?

[Ihaveleftforever]

Ok so I made another post on how im all mixed up between my gf and bro (BFF) and how me and him room on road and have done lil stuff...
but yesterday when he was over he kind of made a move on me, and has been way more "friendly" idk what to do it seems he looking for a lil more than we been doing

[SuperSuraj]

Hello mystery person.

I have to ask a question, do you feel you have led your friend on in anyway? That may be a reason he feels like more should or could happen.

[Ihaveleftforever]

No he came on to me kid I never met fo realz im to sick to make moves at moment

[Egghellojoe]

What have you guys done? and what kind of move did he try to make on you?

[SuperSuraj]

oh, hes probably just confused the situation, you've done things in the past so he must have gotten used to it. If you feel like he's coming on to strong you need to speak and and tell him that hes going to far. Do you mind if i ask what hes been doing that you feel has crossed the line?

[Ihaveleftforever]

I would like to say I have no comments at the moment on that subject... :D I could be an awesome in a press confrence :D...any just idk if i wanna say what and thing is i kinda enjoyed it i think.....

[SuperSuraj]

Well if you enjoyed it im not sure what your question is?

If you dont want him to be so forceful then you have the right to tell him that, but im confused about what you are asking.

[Egghellojoe]

Oh ok and well i have done the same thing with one of my friends and i think its just cause we are curios and since its harder to get with a girl to do those things so then we turn to a close guy friend, but maybe just let him know you like to do stuff with him but that you are straight.

[Ihaveleftforever]

Im confused is the question haha give me advice :p do i take another step or just wait and watch

[SuperSuraj]

Oh ok and well i have done the same thing with one of my friends and i think its just cause we are curios and since its harder to get with a girl to do those things so then we turn to a close guy friend, but maybe just let him know you like to do stuff with him but that you are straight.

Yeah i agree. Now i dont really know you or your friend but it seems like you guys have fairly open relationship, and you did say you enjoyed it so you're just satisfying your hormonal cravings.

However if you feel he is getting to aggressive with you, and he is just coming on stronger and stronger each time you need to tell him that you dont feel comfortable moving this fast.

[SuperSuraj]

Im confused is the question haha give me advice :p do i take another step or just wait and watch

I would say wait and watch, if he gets progressively more and more aggressive you have to step in and tell him you are not okay with where this is going and you want to slow down, or stop altogether.

[Egghellojoe]

Well what would an step up be to you?

[Ihaveleftforever]

haha my situation he not coing on to strong just suprising

[SuperSuraj]

haha my situation he not coing on to strong just suprising

I would think you should just wait and watch, he may have just surprised you that day because you were sick and he was just very open about what he going to do. If he surprises you again, you should open your mouth and tell him you dont feel comfortable just starting what ever you two do right away. Other than that i see no problem with what you two are doing, if your both comfortable, and if its mutual just enjoy it i guess.

[Egghellojoe]

Like surprising in what he wants to do with you?

[Ihaveleftforever]

suprising in im sick and we usally dont do stuff like that outta know where

[Egghellojoe]

Oh ok well maybe he was just feeling like he wanted to do whatever it is you guys did really bad that day and so he just did it

[SuperSuraj]

Oh ok well maybe he was just feeling like he wanted to do whatever it is you guys did really bad that day and so he just did it

yeah... i agree again. He probably didnt realize that you werent in the "mood" this time i dont think you can blame him but next time you need to say something. The fact that even though you were sick and surprised, and you still did something i would think means you like whatever you guys do so its up to you to decided weather or not you want to do it that day or not.

[Ihaveleftforever]

haha okay sounds good :) the gesture was he brought me soup :D

[SuperSuraj]

He sounds like a really good friend :D

[jarrenli94]

Hmm. It seems to me you needa find time to settle down and talk with your BFF. Perhaps he's just in the curious phase ( or horny phase LOL) and he wants to find some way to release that sexual stress. Afterall, you're his BFF and been friends for many, many years and have done sexual things together. If you're not comfortable with how far it gets, it's best if you let him know beforehand.

[Ihaveleftforever]

hahaha he more like bro :p