Virginity...

[curiousteen]

Okay so my freshmen year i received a bj from a guy friend i didn't do anything back we were just experimenting. Would that be considered losing my virginity? I don't consider it losing my virginity i just wanted everyone else's view on it...

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity?
when do you plan to?
Have you had opportunities?
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl?

To the guys that lost their virginity:
did you lose to a guy or girl?
how did you lose it?
when did you lose it?
did the girl or guy want it or you?
and how do you get the girl or guy to come and have sex with you?

Me:
Im a virgin
i haven't lost it because im afraid i might regret it after a while.
idk when i plan to.
And i've had multiple opportunities!

[PAfarmerkid]

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity?Not really sure, havent had a chance, want to loose my virgenity to a girl, though I could easily prob. do it with a guy (Im striaght/curious)
when do you plan to? When the time is right
Have you had opportunities? Not really

[fpums]

To the guys that lost their virginity:
did you lose to a guy or girl? guy
how did you lose it? he suck it up my arse, on school camp :o aha
when did you lose it? start f last yr
did the girl or guy want it or you? i dont understand?
and how do you get the girl or guy to come and have sex with you? it was a mutual decision, we had been talking about it for a few weeks

some people you would have due to doing sexual stuff.
I don't i would say vaganal or anal is virginity

[rusty171610]

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity? Because I haven't had the chance and not sure if I'm ready.
when do you plan to? I don't plan to.
Have you had opportunities? No
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? A girl who I was in a strong relationship with, I wouldn;t mind losing it to a guy if he was a good friend. I'm straight/curious.

[SamB]

First of all no that is not classed as loosing your virginity, loosing your virginity is when you have sex.

how come you haven't lost your virginity? not found the right person
when do you plan to? when it happens or after marriage
Have you had opportunities? nope
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? not bothered

[coopie.mac94]

how come you haven't lost your virginity? havent had a chance, want to loose my virgenity to girl
when do you plan to? When the time is right
Have you had opportunities? Not realy

[Commander Thor]

Okay so my freshmen year i received a bj from a guy friend i didn't do anything back we were just experimenting. Would that be considered losing my virginity? I don't consider it losing my virginity i just wanted everyone else's view on it...
If you don't consider it losing your virginity, then you didn't lose your virginity.
Virginity is such a loosly used term, it's hard to define in black & white what it actually is. There is a HUGE gray area around the whole topic. Some consider ANY sexual activity to be losing your virginity, some consider ONLY vaginal sex to be losing your virginity.
What you label yourself (Virgin or non-virgin), is entirely up to you.


To the guys that lost their virginity:
did you lose to a guy or girl? Guy
how did you lose it? Well you see.....
when did you lose it? Few years ago. I was 14 I believe.
did the girl or guy want it or you? We both kind of wanted it.
and how do you get the girl or guy to come and have sex with you? We were in a relationship
It's not like I called him up, or he was over I and said "Let's have sex!". It was just 'the next step'.

[CBTurner]

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity? No sex until marriage! (and never had a girlfriend before)
when do you plan to? When I'm married
Have you had opportunities? No
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? Girl

[tyler007]

i think that to lose your virginty, one has to have penetrating sex with a girl or boy (either in the vigina or ass). I dont think that oral sex giving or recieving counts.

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity? i just have not had the opportunity
when do you plan to? when the time right
Have you had opportunities? no
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? to a girl

[Example..]

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity?havent had the opportunity
when do you plan to? whenever i can
Have you had opportunities?no
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl?girl, i would do it with a boy.

[sieg]

how come you haven't lost your virginity?im not out of the closet yet
when do you plan to? when it seems right
Have you had opportunities?a few
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? boy

[zakclh]

how come you haven't lost your virginity? Dunno, tbh
when do you plan to? When chance comes along
Have you had opportunities? Kinda, was dunk so.. Lol ;)
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? Girl! :)

[CaliKiDD]

did you lose to a guy or girl? girl
how did you lose it? :) long story
when did you lose it? last year (freshmen year was the best)
did the girl or guy want it or you? both of us
and how do you get the girl or guy to come and have sex with you? actually we talked about it for months then one day it kinda happened

[randy.boii]

Also to the guys that are virgins:
how come you haven't lost your virginity? havent found the right personn

when do you plan to? when i can

Have you had opportunities? yeah but i dont wanna have sex with someone whos easy lol just bjs!

Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl? i dont care whoever is the right personn

[jason123]

how come you haven't lost your virginity?Haven't got a good GF who wants to
when do you plan to? IDK when i get the chance
Have you had opportunities? no
Would you rather lose it to a boy or girl?GIRL