How To Approach Her

[Snowman365]

Okay so this is my first post and I'm kinda looking for some help. So there's this girl that I'm attracted to and I don't know if I want to get with her or just be friends, but I definitely want her in my life somehow. I've never spoken to her, but I said hi a few months back because I was introduced to her by a mutual friend who talks to her frequently. We only have one class and she sits right next to me, but there's never any time to talk except for the last few minutes because the teacher is always teaching. We also have Gym together on wednesdays as well and that mutual friend is there too. That mutual friend accidentally sent her a FR on my facebook a while back(he thought it was his) so we're friends on there.

She's kinda a gamer girl and seems like a cool person. We definitely share some interests. I was thinking about sending her a few messages over a facebook and start things there, but thought it would be weird because we're like 4 months into the year and it's like a random time to start talking to her you know? I was also thinking about on one of those wednesdays I maybe try to hang out with my friend if he's hanging with her in gym. I would rather have that since it's only natural to talk to people you're hanging out with. It would feel more comfortable for me too.

I know I over analyze things, but I just don't want to send her a message or two over facebook and then come the next day sit next to her in class and it be weird. Like we just started talking over facebook when I had 4 months to start talking to her. Kinda random. Makes it seem like I'm hitting on her. That's why I'd rather take the mutual friend approach.

IDK, tell me what you think. And please dont be critical of my longer than necessary post. Just really want this to go well you know?

[Vonn]

If you share interests, ask her to do something with you. That should be easy, since you would both be doing something you like.

Go ahead and message her on facebook. I don't think it'll be seen as weird, as everybody's doing it and that's what it's used for.

[Daniel_]

Just talk to her. Shes just like any other person, and theres no reason why shes different.

If you have common interests, then talk about your common interests with her. it's so incredibly simple to make friends, it's just a matter of getting your foot out of your mouth and talking.

[Iron Man]

Whatever you do, don`t tell her that you like her over a text. I did it, and she is hardly speaking to me.

[kyle95]

After class take a couple of seconds and ask her if she'd be interested in joining you after school at .... McDonalds, the Mall, etc. You're right about FB, too random. Talk to her and be hones. Good luck mate :)

[Ihaveleftforever]

Just do whatever you can to get to know her better and be around her the more around her you are the more stuck in here head soon she will wanna be around you more and yea magic will happen ;)

[The Joker]

Okay so this is my first post and I'm kinda looking for some help. So there's this girl that I'm attracted to and I don't know if I want to get with her or just be friends, but I definitely want her in my life somehow. I've never spoken to her, but I said hi a few months back because I was introduced to her by a mutual friend who talks to her frequently. We only have one class and she sits right next to me, but there's never any time to talk except for the last few minutes because the teacher is always teaching. We also have Gym together on wednesdays as well and that mutual friend is there too. That mutual friend accidentally sent her a FR on my facebook a while back(he thought it was his) so we're friends on there.

She's kinda a gamer girl and seems like a cool person. We definitely share some interests. I was thinking about sending her a few messages over a facebook and start things there, but thought it would be weird because we're like 4 months into the year and it's like a random time to start talking to her you know? I was also thinking about on one of those wednesdays I maybe try to hang out with my friend if he's hanging with her in gym. I would rather have that since it's only natural to talk to people you're hanging out with. It would feel more comfortable for me too.

I know I over analyze things, but I just don't want to send her a message or two over facebook and then come the next day sit next to her in class and it be weird. Like we just started talking over facebook when I had 4 months to start talking to her. Kinda random. Makes it seem like I'm hitting on her. That's why I'd rather take the mutual friend approach.

IDK, tell me what you think. And please dont be critical of my longer than necessary post. Just really want this to go well you know?

I started talking to my current best friend about 3-4 months into the year. If you're so afraid of talking to her face to face, just message her on Facebook. Ask her a question about the class you're in, like, "Was there any homework assigned that I forgot?". After she answers, you just continue talking to her. If you talk to her past the "What's up?"'s, and the "Not much, you?"'s, then talk to her at school. If you share an interest, ask her something relating to that interest.

Easy peasy.

[tyler007]

Yea you should really take the chance and talk to her.. about anything, a homework assignmet, games, what ever.... even if you ask her if she has an extra pen or pencil. I think you should do it face to face, but you could start on FB i guess too. I think that both candianeric94 and the joker are right on the money.