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jarrenli94
January 11th, 2011, 03:05 AM
Have you ever felt kinda guilty after having sex. Perhaps I'm thinking too much, but I'm always worried that it'll haunt me in the future e.g when i'm married or smthing, and those who you've had sex with come up on your door and spoils everything.
Fushigi
January 11th, 2011, 04:37 AM
well i havent tried it yet
JasperSharp
January 11th, 2011, 06:11 AM
Yeah I do. I actually love it. Im bi so I like it when a guy shoots all over another guy. It wouldnt be weird it turns a straight guy on because you see it all the time because you masturbate.
jason123
January 11th, 2011, 03:06 PM
I see where you are coming from. Personally I am a virgin but my health teacher keeps preackin gthat.
grstl
January 11th, 2011, 03:18 PM
Until I felt ok to be gay I felt really guilty about that.
When a girl (who is still my girlfriend) wanted me and we started a relationship I felt guilt about still doing guys stuff.
I have never had a guilt free sex life.
I am now comfortable with who I am but with some regrets about the girlfriend thing.
I hope you find a way through it to confidence in who you are.
mizzer234
January 11th, 2011, 05:58 PM
nope no guilt here
jarrenli94
January 12th, 2011, 03:11 AM
I see. Honestly, I'm still a virgin but I have doubts about how sex may affect me in the future. I kinda have a really close relationship with my gf, and she's really nice, but when I get horny its usually on an impulse. She's pretty and all, but I just can't picture her doing it with me. Its not that she's not attractive, but she's too nice and I don't want to ruin her/ myself.
grstl
January 12th, 2011, 09:47 AM
I see. Honestly, I'm still a virgin but I have doubts about how sex may affect me in the future. I kinda have a really close relationship with my gf, and she's really nice, but when I get horny its usually on an impulse. She's pretty and all, but I just can't picture her doing it with me. Its not that she's not attractive, but she's too nice and I don't want to ruin her/ myself.

;) You are wiser than most to value a great friendship and think ahead. I thought I was ok doing stuff with my girlfriend then several issues including a baby have made things challenging since.

Stay wise.