Don't know what to do :|

[Paranoia_]

Hello guys, I'm new here! :) Well uhh happy late new years to everyone lol. So, I've been liking a guy for 2 years now and this is our last year together before we move onto High School, but idk what High School he's going to and I want to tell him I like him but at the same time I don't, idk if he's gay or not, and even if he is, that doesnt mean he likes me so im not quite sure as to what to do, any help? :s thanks!

Also, we don't really talk at all so if I just start talkin to him at random it'll be weird.

[MoveAlong]

Welcome to the forums! I'm sorry that I don't have any advise for you, but I can tell you two things:

1. Please do not double post. I combined your posts.

2. This belongs in Teen Sexuality, so I will move it there

[Paranoia_]

Okay sorry, I forgot to add the second part when I first posted!

[MoveAlong]

It's okay, just next time use the edit button instead! :)

[ccrunner]

i would start with common chit chat even if it is wierd and then move into it ask him what he is like ( gay straight etc) how he feels about you and when your comfortable with the situation tell him about how you feel

[smitty35]

I think you should find out his habbits and his personality, and that will help you determine if he is gay or not. And you may as well get it done now or never. Like you said he may be going to a different high school

[Paranoia_]

I think you should find out his habbits and his personality, and that will help you determine if he is gay or not. And you may as well get it done now or never. Like you said he may be going to a different high school

Yeah but the thing is, even the most masculine guys can turn out to be gay, which is why it's harder than it is. I kinda think he knows I like him considering that i get a little nervous around him and he had caught me staring at him once before last year lol. D: I wanna find out what high school he's goin to, and if he's not going to the same one as me then I'll ask him, otherwise I'll wait till near the end of the year cause my school is kinda harsh on gay guys

[mr.sexy_bomb]

I think you should just tell him, because you don't really loose anything I mean you barely talk to the guy, but If you tell him and he likes you back then you gain a bf, i also think you should tell him and not wait until the last minute or you will regreat it big time in the future, this is all just my opinion, good luck.

[Paranoia_]

Yeah, I do plan on telling him, but maybe next month. Nobody knows I'm gay yet and my school isn't very welcoming to them, so I'm afraid he'll tell his friends and they start picking on me or something. Not that i won't let them walk all over me or anything, but still. I guess I'm just really nervous. :|

[Paranoia_]

Any more advice anyone? :D Sorry if bumping this isn't allowed... :|