Straight or Bisexual?

[PAfarmerkid]

Ok, Im 15 almost 16. Im physically attracted to guys, but as well as girls. I am not at all emotianlly attracted to men though. Not sure if Im striaght or bi, IMO for the last 2 years Im straight because Im emotianlly atrated to women, and always thought you had to be emotionally attracted to both sexes to be bi :what: I havent told any of my friends here that I am partly physically attracted to men, but after reading it seems Im not the only one.

[Commander Thor]

Sexuality is so complex, it's hard to place a definitive label on it.
You could be bi, you could be straight.
Based on the description you gave, I'd say you are straight.
Now I'm sure there'll be posts below mine stating that you are something called 'curious', whatever that is. That's fine, labeling yourself curious, but that word gets thrown around so much, it's hard to even know what it means.
To be honest, at this age, it's difficult to know what you're /actually/ feeling. And what you're /actually/ attracted to.

My honest advice at the moment, is to not label yourself, and do what YOU think is right. Don't let a bunch of teens tell you what you are, only YOU can know for sure.

[PAfarmerkid]

Thanks, I am always telling people Im straight like everyone else and sometimes feel Im lying, but at the same time Ive been reading about alot of other guys being "curious" so it makes me feel better about it.

[tyler007]

I think your most likely str8 then, you might be courious too. But your the only one who can answer that. I think that yes you should be phyiscal and emotional attracted to someone to in order to be in a relationship.

[VerizoniPhone]

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[PAfarmerkid]

Thanks guys, this will make me more confident in saying and knowing Im straight.

I do have another question kinda on the same topic though, should I maybe come out to some of my friends about this? There is one friend I could trust to not tell anyone, but he is someone I talk to about everything else in my life, but he is very "anti-gay" and has told me if one of his friends turned gay he would no longer be friends, and I dont want him to think Im gay and etc.

[spw184]

Im in the same boat and ive found, dont tell anyone and keep your mouth shut about it. when you get the sexual desire for guys do one of three things
1. Forget about it
2. flirt with him in a subtle way
3. if your REALLY serious try to become his friend and go over to his house. I think you know where this one leads to with most teens.

[smitty35]

you are probably just str8 curios, alot of guys are

[DigBick]

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[grstl]

Forget labels...just enjoy being whatever you are. I am a straight acting gay guy who really tried to be straight all the way for a while then gave up. I prefer guys but still enjoy some girl stuff. It would probably still be easier for a lot of us to stay publicly straight but try to find some good trustworthy person to enjoy guy stuff with...........and not feel guilt about. Guilt hurts too much. Stay honest to yourself and start preparing how to be more open with others.

[frankie97]

I think im bi. Im attracted to guys. I think im attracted to girls. I really dont know anymore

[jason123]

In puberty ur r naturally curious

[willrod]

It sounds to me like you're mostly str8, but have some physical attraction to guys. In my humble opinion, I think that almost all str8 guys are curious to some degree- I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just do what your heart tells you to do- no sense trying to "force" yourself into completely removing your feelings towards guys- nor should you try to be in an emotional relationship with a guy if you're not emotionally attracted to guys.

[phily08]

it sounds that your str8 or curious but thats up to you.some people say dont abel your self and im fine with them but if you dont then how will you kno who u are?

[Sebastian Michaelis]

Ok, Im 15 almost 16. Im physically attracted to guys, but as well as girls. I am not at all emotianlly attracted to men though. Not sure if Im striaght or bi, IMO for the last 2 years Im straight because Im emotianlly atrated to women, and always thought you had to be emotionally attracted to both sexes to be bi :what: I havent told any of my friends here that I am partly physically attracted to men, but after reading it seems Im not the only one.

I'd say you are str8/curious because you have to be both physically and emotionally attracted to men and women to be Bi and just women to be str8 and just men to be gay

[ITSGUCCITIME]

Sexuality is so complex, it's hard to place a definitive label on it.
You could be bi, you could be straight.
Based on the description you gave, I'd say you are straight.
Now I'm sure there'll be posts below mine stating that you are something called 'curious', whatever that is. That's fine, labeling yourself curious, but that word gets thrown around so much, it's hard to even know what it means.
To be honest, at this age, it's difficult to know what you're /actually/ feeling. And what you're /actually/ attracted to.

My honest advice at the moment, is to not label yourself, and do what YOU think is right. Don't let a bunch of teens tell you what you are, only YOU can know for sure.

Agree

[John Marston]

I agree with xbox360922