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Stay
January 9th, 2011, 10:17 PM
I'll make this short..
I have extremely bad trust problems with girls.
Little things easily get to me and I'm on some medication that makes me extremely emotional.

Anyway, this girl and I were talking and she told me she only likes me and everything, but we can't date right now for unimportant reasons.

She changed her phone signature to my initials with a heart, which meant a lot to me. Not only because it was about me, but now everyone she texts knows she likes me and I didn't have to worry to much about other guys. But she just changed it to something else unrelated to me or any other guys, it's about her friend who is a girl. It made me upset/: I know, it's extremely stupid and immature, but it just got to me. /:

Rutherford The Brave
January 9th, 2011, 10:20 PM
Dude you can't go out with her or be in love with her if you dont trust her.

Stay
January 9th, 2011, 10:22 PM
Dude you can't go out with her or be in love with her if you dont trust her.

I know, that's one of the reasons why we're not dating right now.
I don't even know why this is making me upset, I know it's stupid, but it still just gets to me.

Rutherford The Brave
January 9th, 2011, 10:24 PM
I know, that's one of the reasons why we're not dating right now.
I don't even know why this is making me upset, I know it's stupid, but it still just gets to me.

Dude, I don't think she just changed her feelings, that would mean that she didnt havefeelings for you. Maybe you should try to become serious and go for it

IAMWILL
January 9th, 2011, 11:19 PM
You overeacted really. You aren't the focal point of her life, and she shouldn't be yours either. It sounds like your focusing way to much on this girl rather than life. But you have to remember to live your life and not spend it trying to help hers, because then your whole life will revolve around her and if she breaks up with you you will be crushed.