Well...

[tisdave]

I know this is a pointless post, but I really, really need to get it off my chest.

Last year (January) i tried to kill myself, by walking in to the sea, and keeping going. A group of my friends ran in and brought me out in tears. That was that. But there's one girl, lets call her P, who brings it up constantly. She's posted it on Facebook, she's brought it up in text, she makes me think about it all the time. I know it was wrong to do it, but i was so upset about everything that had happened before that I didnt know what else to do. A couple of weeks ago, she said she would be quiet about it, and so i said okay. Today, she brings it back up, alerting the whole of Facebook about it.

What should I do? I feel like doing it all over again, i really really do.

[PJay]

Sounds like its becoming a bullying issue - report it to facebook and whatever. She's not a friend.

[FullyAlive]

Could you talk to her? Is she a reasonable person? If you explain to her that you'd like to put it behind you and she's not allowing you too would she listen? I would give it a go personally but if you don't think she will respond well then i would go with the advice above and report if not to Facebook then to a teacher or someone? But whatever you do don't let her continue it's not fair and you deserve better. Good luck :)

[closed]

It's not right that she brings it up all the time. Well, assuming that both of you are pretty reasonable people, i would advice you to just ask her nicely. Just ask her to stop. If she continues, talk to her more harshly. At the end - there is no reason to bring it up all the time.
And to the second part, that bothers me the most;
why do you want to do it again? Is it because of the one who brings it up? talk to me, i can help you. Suicide is never the solution.

Contact details aren't allowed ~removed~

[tisdave]

I have tried explaining to her, constantly i try.
She just doesnt seem to recognise. I've de-activated my Facebook Account, MSN & Skype, as people keep talking to me about it.

[PJay]

Dude seriously - report her. Its bullying. Facebook will shut HER account then you can get on with your life.

Its hard enough to move on after where you've been without some thick or vindictive b***h stirring things up all the time. She is totally out of order.

[Eagle63]

Whatever happens, tisdave, it will all work out in the end. I would just leave it alone. If she was a real friend, she would stop bringing it up, just like you asked her to. We're here for ya.

[tisdave]

Thanks, you've all been a big help.

[Jstr]

Ignore her

[Weeping]

Well, since you've already said that you tried talking to her, maybe you should talk to like.. a teacher or some other adult.. Then you can talk to her together..

I hope she'll stop, and that you won't do it again!
:hug: