Most INTENSE sexual experience. How does it affect your sexuality?

[grstl]

When I first spontaneously, intensly kissed a guy in a men's room then had to calmly return to my waiting girlfriend.......then I knew I was truly gay inside even if I have to hide it for social and religious reasons.

[PJay]

I think its the other way around : its intense because you are really into that person / gender.

[grstl]

Yeah, I was craving something really personal with a guy and he was tall, Afican-American and cute with great lips.....but after that I never wanted to kiss my girlfriend like that. She is pretty disappointed that I don't really passionately kiss her. Good thing she doesn't know why. I don't like hurting people.

[OMGitsDAVE]

I would think you should tell her, as if you don't want to hurt her its worse waiting.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

You should tell her she deserve's to know ...
if you really care for her she should know
oterwise she may think theres something wrong with her as you dont kiss her passionatly :/ x

[grstl]

We have talked about being attracted to the same sex. She isn't and I told her I was...just not how much. She just teases me about not being a great kisser and seems to like the other stuff we do together.

BUT....I am still wondering if I am the only one with a really significant sexual experience that hits deep inside.