Any hope?

[DreamSeeker]

So it seems school affects my personality :/ As for the past 2 days back at school I seem to have been really nasty to my girlfriend and I don't know why even though I love her!

I just got a text saying she does not think it's working as half the time I'm mean to her, and apparently something that happened in the past makes her not trust me :/

Anything I can do? Because I know if I lose her I'll go into another state of depression as I always do when I lose something I love... And that will just make my life worse :'(

[Dunce]

Maybe it's down to stress? That's all I can really think of. You could tell her what you posted here, that you dont mean to be and she means the world to you. When you're talking to her just remember how much you dont want to lose her. If you think it is down to stress then find a way to de-stress. Dont bother with people who annoy you, do things you love etc :)

[Sage]

In what ways are you being "mean?"

[DreamSeeker]

In what ways are you being "mean?"

I'll call her names and be selfish :/ I don't know why. I really love her and yet I'm like this :/ I freakin hate myself right now

[Sage]

I'll call her names and be selfish :/ I don't know why. I really love her and yet I'm like this :/ I freakin hate myself right now

Then maybe you need to take a break from your relationship to learn how to better cope with the stress of highschool.

[DreamSeeker]

She dumped me :'( She thought I'm too selfish and apparently I still like my Ex which I don't... :'(

[Sage]

She dumped me :'( She thought I'm too selfish and apparently I still like my Ex which I don't... :'(

So, what are you going to do now then?

[kyle95]

first of all, man up mate and apologise to her. don't do it with the expectation that she'll forgive you, do it because you truly mean it. you're being mean and being aware of it is clearly a self-destructive path you're on. alter your course now before it's too late and you hurt too many people. think of the first day your girlfriend agreed to be "yours", think how excited she was and all the people she told. you basically winded her mate. you need to earn her trust from now on and you better put a check on your behaviour before someone else does it for you. think of all the good things she brings into your life and reform. you may also need professional help to manage your mood swings. when you talk to her, don't look for sympathy, tell straight that you're willing to change and that you understand completely if she walks. no heavies, you hurt her enuf

[DreamSeeker]

Thanks for the advice guys :) I'll see how it goes this week...

[KylieEatWorld]

You say you love her. Prove it. Don't half ass your apology. The more effort/money you put into it the more she can see you care. Evaluate yourself. Are you going to apologize because you don't want to lose a girlfriend or because you are truly sorry for hurting her? You also have to work on anger control. Work on calming exercises so you don't snap at people.

[Daniel_]

She dumped me :'( She thought I'm too selfish and apparently I still like my Ex which I don't... :'(

Not to be rude at all, but your ass had it coming.

It's a cruel thing to take out your stress/anger on your girlfriend, and someone who doesn't know how to coap and keep these things under control doesn't deserve a long lasting relationship, because chances are the other person will NOT be a happy person.

[Myrnodin]

You say you love her. Prove it. Don't half ass your apology. The more effort/money you put into it the more she can see you care. Evaluate yourself. Are you going to apologize because you don't want to lose a girlfriend or because you are truly sorry for hurting her? You also have to work on anger control. Work on calming exercises so you don't snap at people.

I completely agree with Foxglove here. Are you really sorry because you were mean to an innocent human being? or is it that you just dont wanna lose a girlfriend? Whatever you did, you alreadyd did it, and even tho im not a big fan of "forgiveness" if you are really sorry, you have to prove it, and make sure it wont happen again... Specially if she loves you... Remember that loving someone is giving him the power to destroy you, and trust he will not...