Serious Help.

[TazzBoy]

Over the summer i was talking to this girl who've i've known for about a year then. We went on a school camping trip and things got close.. i started holding her hand, gave her long hugs, kissed her on the cheek and just had long talks with her. We got pretty close, we were up till the early mornings either talking on the phone or texting. I wanted to ask her out but back then i didn't know what to do. I've never had a girlfriend so i was looking for help. To cut it short, i basically waited too long and she finally came up to me and said that she didn't want to waste my time... that's when i told her i liked her but that was too late. We stopped talking for about a month but would see each other and play it off. i kinda give her the cold shoulder the whole time but eventually i started trying to get to talking with her again because i still liked her.
We started talking about for about a month now and we've IM'd intil the early mornings. With school starting again, i see her everyday and we talk but not as much. Our IM's weren't really flirting, but we just got to know each other more but we also had some obvious flirting going on. Now i don't know if she likes me again because she tells me about how these other guys are cute and i just change the subject because it's not something i want to hear. It's really made me jealous but i know she'd never do anythign with them. I really want to ask her out but do i just risk it like that?
Help me please.

[Arantor]

Simple solution: Ask her if she likes you.

[TazzBoy]

Okay just go up to her..
"Hey __, do you like me because i like you?"
"uhh i gues.."
"okay.. do you want to go out with me?"
"Sure!"
"okay cool... what now?"
"idk.."

that's how i see it play out.

[kyle95]

first of all she's not a bloke, she's a girl. it's her right to flirt, make you jealous, or string you along - if you want it that way. remember, she's also exploring her feelings and if she's that honest and telling you about other blokes, count yourself lucky - she's comfortable with you enuf to tell you these things. be friends with her, everything else will follow. don't rush her and don't stifle her. blokes who lay a heavy always lose in the end. and don't play mind games with her either, let her see you as a straight forward chap who doesn't get jealous, who's happy for her whatever her decision may be. she's prodding and checking you out, don't show her you're made of mush :)

[TazzBoy]

@Kyle, dang that's true. I give you props haha, thanks. So i guess i'll just let things fall as they may. we've made it this far just gotta stay close and when i think it's right i'll just ask.

[ktmay96]

Okay just go up to her..
"Hey __, do you like me because i like you?"
"uhh i gues.."
"okay.. do you want to go out with me?"
"Sure!"
"okay cool... what now?"
"idk.."

that's how i see it play out.

i love this. mostly because thats what i do whenever someone tells me to do something like that. i imagine the most ridiculous and embarrasing way it could happen.
but do ask her. it seems like you guys have a history, and that sorta thing mostly doesn't just disappear like that. if your IM's are a little flirty, and she's telling you about other guys, there is a possiblity she likes you. she might be using the guys to see if your jealous, a kinda subtle way to see if you like her. the other possibility is that she is just real close with you and feels comfortable talking about other guys with you. but since it doesn't seem like thats your normal type of conversation, plus the fact you guys had a thing in the past, im guessing she might like you. no promises though, so you should do as was said before and ask her. it is truly a good idea. and i promise the conversation won't go like that ^^. haha good luck! :)