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jhv222
January 5th, 2011, 04:03 PM
I have been friends with this girl for some time now, around four years. however, we have never really been close friends. I would always see her and talk to her in school but we never hung out together out of school.

This year, my senior year, I talk to her everyday at the same time during school. After 2nd period I meet her in the morning next to her locker and walk with her to her next class. This is the only time I see her during the day, I have no classes with her and we hang out with different people after school.

She is pretty shy so I don't want to do anything that will make her feel awkward, but I would like to kinda drop hints that I like her but I am not sure how to do it. Since there is a limited time and we are just walking to class I only have like 2 minutes to talk to her.

If anyone has any advice on what I can do with this situation it would help a lot. It would be difficult for me to meet up with her after school since she does track and I wrestle.

Thanks

I can add more detail if people need it.

ProBaller40
January 5th, 2011, 04:09 PM
When you arn't walking or talking to each other, kinda make an obvious stare. Maybe put a heart when you are talking on IM when you are saying bye. Look into her eyes when talking, if you don't already. Just think up of ways.

Daniel_
January 5th, 2011, 04:40 PM
"Hey, you wanna hang out sometime? We can catch a movie or something".

The Dark Lord
January 5th, 2011, 04:42 PM
"Hey, you wanna hang out sometime? We can catch a movie or something".

/thread

jhv222
January 5th, 2011, 07:09 PM
"Hey, you wanna hang out sometime? We can catch a movie or something".

This would work however, I wrestle and during weekdays I have practices or a match to at least 8:30 every night and on weekends I go to tournaments (they are usually overnight tournaments so for the most part I wont have much time to do anything)

I want to start kinda dropping hints now so that come mid April, when I done wrestling, she'll kinda have the idea by then. But for now what I can do outside of school is limited.

Daniel_
January 5th, 2011, 08:01 PM
This would work however, I wrestle and during weekdays I have practices or a match to at least 8:30 every night and on weekends I go to tournaments (they are usually overnight tournaments so for the most part I wont have much time to do anything)

I want to start kinda dropping hints now so that come mid April, when I done wrestling, she'll kinda have the idea by then. But for now what I can do outside of school is limited.

Take a day off.

Sage
January 6th, 2011, 07:58 AM
Stop dropping hints and beating around the bush. Tell her how you feel. Spontaneity and confidence are attractive.

PJay
January 6th, 2011, 11:56 AM
Stop dropping hints and beating around the bush. Tell her how you feel. Spontaneity and confidence are attractive.

This.

Don't pressure her too much though : if she isn't sure or makes an excuse just do the happy smile and "ok some other time then" and TRY AGAIN after a few days.

It might help the first time if you have worked out what you could do on a date, so if you have specific ideas about what you guys can do you already worked out you can just fire of some fun ideas which might tempt her while she's still thinking about it.

whereismymind
January 6th, 2011, 01:02 PM
Maybe try and hang out with her and some friends to start off with or just try to get close with her then be as sweet as possible and ask her out on a date

Dimitri
January 6th, 2011, 04:09 PM
Something I tried and it worked was when I was getting ready to go to bed and the girl I was texting said goodbye and I said "see you soon" and she asked what I ment and I said "in my dreams" and know what have been together for adout two months. I think that being straight forward works.