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ackmedsgirl666
January 5th, 2011, 11:03 AM
i had a similar thread on this before anyways here i am again
my girlfriend went to the doctor and the doctor took one look at her and said that she is is definately pregnant. she has all of the symptoms including morning sickness, drowsiness, headaches, backaches etc.
we have a problem though.
the staff in my group home found out and they are taking her to get tested so they are 100% sure and if she is pregnant they will kick her out. she has nowhere to go and no money what so ever and neither do I
i don't know how to help her from my end although my bestfriend has offered to act as the father as the real father wants nothing to do with this child. my bestfriend has offered up his money for this baby when he gets his job and he says that he will prepare for the baby and when it is born he wants both me and her to move in eith him.
i am seriously scared for her and she is really small. she is 19 years old and weighs only 75 pounds and i am soo scared of something going wrong when she goes into labour.....
i am not sure what to make of this situation so i am turning to you guys...
so ummm yaaaaa
DreamSeeker
January 5th, 2011, 01:57 PM
Does she really want this baby? If not there is an abortion. But if she wants it I wish you all the best, the hospital should help you all they can and when at scans etc. And they should keep it as straight forward in labour as possible, if the baby has troubles being born she may have a c-section.
Daniel_
January 5th, 2011, 05:33 PM
Abortion sounds like your best bet man. Good luck though, whatever your decision.
spfreak
January 5th, 2011, 06:41 PM
What they said above... abortion. It's a tough choice, but you still have a little while to decide.
NeverTooLate
January 5th, 2011, 06:44 PM
Shouldn't have had sex or used a rubber...but as they all said abortion i guess
ackmedsgirl666
January 6th, 2011, 07:24 PM
she never had sex on purpose
the person who is the dad (as i stated in my thread) took advantage of her while she was drunk. and yes he did use a rubber but it broke
kyle95
January 7th, 2011, 08:24 PM
i see you're in canada. just like here, they have all sorts of help for teenage girls who are pregnant. you just have to ask the right people. there are social services, assisted housing, childcare whilst she attends classes, etc. a good place to begin is with her doctor, there usually is information and resources in the office.