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[ttuip]

so im 15, and i like this guy who i think is gay or bi or curious. but i cant ever get the guts to talk to him! :( what should i do? any help would help. thanks :)

[Captor K]

I'm not exactly sure what to tell you, but I find that when I want to meet new people 9especially if it's a guy I've been staring at), this good, old-fashioned method works for me.

Walk up to him.
Stick out hand.
Say, "Hi, my name is_____."

No, really, just go up to him and say hello, but be subtle about it. If he's like sitting down reading by himself, just go over and be friendly.

[Zazu]

You need to approach this person and completely forget the fact that you 'like' him already. Just go up to him and introduce yourself like you would with any other person. Keaton's idea tends to work :P

Just get to know him like you would any other person before you consider 'liking' him. You don't know if you will really 'like' him at the moment because you don't know him to take it slowly and play it cool.

[Fushigi]

I'm not exactly sure what to tell you, but I find that when I want to meet new people 9especially if it's a guy I've been staring at), this good, old-fashioned method works for me.

Walk up to him.
Stick out hand.
Say, "Hi, my name is_____."

No, really, just go up to him and say hello, but be subtle about it. If he's like sitting down reading by himself, just go over and be friendly.



hmmm thats a good idea but what if he is kinda shy?? and what if he'll do that ....there is a possibility that the guy will get irritated... so it will be so embarrassing...
any tips? coz i kinda feel it too LOL!!! i can relate

[PJay]

Be yourself and try to involve yourself in his life somehow. I don't mean that in a creepy way but that could mean doing some after school activities he does or something like that. You need something in common so you guys can hang out a bit so it feels natural. It might even be asking him if he wants to head out bowling or something, even as part of a group of other friends.

The hard part is being friendly without being too in his face, so if he says no, you just need to ignore the dagger stabbing you in the guts and smile and say "some other time then." That way if you DO get rejected, you can have another try without him getting creeped out.

The way i think of it is you are just trying to make a new friend first, and in a bit of time it might become more. One step at a time though.

Hope that helps.

[Lights]

I would recommend taking an interest in what he likes. Perhaps some casual flirting would help as well. And by casual flirting I mean complimenting him and other such subtle things.

Do you know him at all well? If you've spoken to him at least once before, that should boost your confidence. Play it cool, and if you're unsure about his sexuality, gradually try to find out. But you really ought to bond with him before trying to find that out.

Good luck.

[Kahn]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[tyler007]

I like the saying hi thing..
or if you have any classes together you can say something like: can i see your notes on... i can believe what a dick MR... was today.... sports, weather, new movie, I cant beleive the Twilight won last nights people chioce award. anything its called small talk, and works wounders for meeting new ppl.

[julybrown2010]

Hi friends I want to share something with you about my confusion.I have confusion about my friend is that I fill that he is likes me as more than friend but I don't know his real fillings how can I know that can I ask him about this but I don't want to loss him.Please give me any suggestion.