Nervous

[jefft1995]

ok so my friend and i are both virgins and both bi/curious

we were talking and plan on fooling around just for fun, but the problem is his dick is 8.5inches (he wasnt lying..ive seen it)

im nervous that if we do anal it will kill...so what should I do?
also even if we just to bjs thats too long to deep throat

has anyone been with a guy that big?

[cma miller0]

id just go 4 it u might just tear a little bit but not bad

[GryffindorSeeker]

I haven't done anything with a guy that big, but my advice, do as much as you can and want! My guess, he will love it anyway. :) Good Luck!

[Nancy Boy]

Eh, just grit your teeth at first,..It gets less painful and more pleasurable :) I know this from experience xD

[sounddude]

I hope you're practicing with something bigger than your finger!! And LOTS of lube man...take a hot bath first, relax, and hopefully he will take his sweet time...good luck man...you don't mention if he is thick...that's the real problem, not the length!!

[tyler007]

WOW your friend is huge,,,, but let me just say have fun, you can jerk off and trade hand jobs no problem. And you do trade blow jobs, make sure you get the first one,, and then you dont have to be able to deep throat the whole thing, just take in as much as you can, if you relax you can get some more it too.
And my friend and i just do not do anal.... so you can say that in the begining, but i have watched enuff porn to know that is you do, have lots and lots of a good lube, and take it nice a slow,,, oh yea... lube :)

[Psychintraining]

Okay first off, I would advise saving your virginity for someone else unless this person means more than just a friendship to you. You want your virginity to be with someone you have an emotional connection with.

Second, 8.5 is big, and use lube, and take a hot bath before hand... make sure he goes slow; anal sex can harm your rectum if he is thick and you are unprepared. Remember no means no and he should stop no matter what.

And continue to build up to the idea of sex by trading bjs/hjs, spending time together, sleeping over... don't jump into it is all.

[RadioPlayer]

I would say go for it. It's really fun to fool around. If it hurts too much, just tell him to stop. Odds are it won't be that bad though.

[miguelt]

i'd prolly be nervous too

you dont have to go all the way though

[obknobe]

I stretched mine with a toy before the first time but he was way smaller than that. Try varying sizes of stuff you can get in there and take your time and lube good. If he's cool, he can get in enough to feel good and won't hurt you too bad. Eventually when you practice and relax, it will all go in and TRUST ME you are going to love how it feels.

[PJay]

idk how big you are (like how old / tall whatever) but I don't think I could take that. Depends how thick it is I guess. But yeah, read up about preparing yourself. I had been using small candles as a toy a few weeks before I got a bf which I think really helped get me used to it, and you need to go really slow at the start, give it a minute or 2 for everything to relax and you'll b e good to go. If you do it regular it gets way easier too.
So I think it depends on your relative size and its more about thickness than length. Just put an old towel on the bed & have plenty of lube / tissues/ baby wipes handy and have fun finding out!

[Blank]

I think it's best if you can save your virginity for someone that you love.

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