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Xerxes
January 4th, 2011, 08:41 PM
i feel lonely all the time... Even when I am with my friends I still feel like nobody cares about me. Is there any way to fix this? :confused:
Fiction
January 5th, 2011, 02:12 PM
The only real way to fix this is to try and find friends that you can feel close too.
Myrnodin
January 5th, 2011, 11:07 PM
This sounds harsh, but it is not. (Really it isnt, but id ont like how it sounds) "Get a hooby."
Really... Sometimes its not lonelyness what we feel, but some other things, and feeling good with yourself helps a lot with everything; if you find something to do, like: Origami, model building, painting, writing, etc. You will do it great (sadly, depressed people do great at arts) but the result, will make you feel good with yourself, because YOU did it. After that, im sure you will find your own way back in to being ok. You can pick something easy, like... a puzzle or something, its kinda cheating, but the feeling is the same. Try it, and let me know if you want. ;)
Nathan_B
January 5th, 2011, 11:12 PM
I've been feeling lonely lately too. I have plenty of hobbies, have plenty of friends who care. its just gets me down and depressed idk
PJay
January 6th, 2011, 06:49 AM
Some people like being alone so it isn't necessarily a bad thing. Maybe its worth thinking what is it about being alone that sucks for you. Eg do you want someone to talk to, play games with, whatever. Maybe that way you can work out what is missing that makes you feel alone. Perhaps its just an illusion or a medical thing : if you have friends, then that means you do have people who care (OP). Some people have chemical things wrong that mean that (as I understand it) the happy chemicals in the brain get absorbed and disappear too quick so things that should make you happy don't. So if there is nothing you can see wrong with your life as a cause, it could be worth seeing a doctor.
Continuum
January 6th, 2011, 07:24 AM
People like me feel lonely at times too. The true remedy for this is to realize that people care for you, still. And also, I know that most people in your life do.
polkagurl
January 6th, 2011, 01:44 PM
jusst get yourself out there ! :) try to find people that have similar interests as you. i know loneliness targets a lot of teenagers but just try and be the person you are. DO NOT let anyone change you and just get out there and do things you enjoy doing. when i was going through that stage i just went on my bike and rode my bike around my area than a lot of people say me called me over asked to hang out and yeah i was definitely not feeling lonely anymore. try it out ! and good luck !
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