Is this normal to do?

[Ihaveleftforever]

Hey, Im in hockey so most weekends when we are out of town. Well all weekends for me since The town i play for is an hr away. We sleep in hotels and have to room. So me and my bff (Bro (neighbor) basiclly since birth) uslly room with another friend. And me and my bff will have to share same bed. Now I do have a GF way back in home town and she would not like to know things going on when she not around. of coarse i dont wanna know what she up to either.
(Kind of a side question I realize me and her arnt in a health relationship kindof doing things behind each other back, but we'd both be crushed if we broke up what should i do there):wub:
Anyway back to my main Q me my bff bed togeter and spend most everyday togeter. and things sometimes happen such as to be "funny" act gay or whatever. and we have gone a lil far with it. and even when knobody looking we will start it up and go a lil far. but we both claim were stright as could be. Im just pretty confused with everything at moment plz help.:what:

[jimmy-magic]

I really dont think there is anything wrong with what you are doing in my opinion, curiousity is a part of life and your bound to want to try something with someone of the same sex at some stage, especially someone you are very close to. I dont think it is cheating as you say you are in love with your girlfriend which i am very happy to hear. Your just havin a bit of fun with a good friend and i dont think you have anything to worry about.

if you have any more questions for me please feel free to come and ask, hope i helped a little, Jimmy.

[Craig1995]

It's curiosity dude. If u browse this sight a little u will find there's hundreds of people who do that sort of thing.

[Firemisson]

Hey, Im in hockey so most weekends when we are out of town. Well all weekends for me since The town i play for is an hr away. We sleep in hotels and have to room. So me and my bff (Bro (neighbor) basiclly since birth) uslly room with another friend. And me and my bff will have to share same bed. Now I do have a GF way back in home town and she would not like to know things going on when she not around. of coarse i dont wanna know what she up to either.
(Kind of a side question I realize me and her arnt in a health relationship kindof doing things behind each other back, but we'd both be crushed if we broke up what should i do there):wub:
Anyway back to my main Q me my bff bed togeter and spend most everyday togeter. and things sometimes happen such as to be "funny" act gay or whatever. and we have gone a lil far with it. and even when knobody looking we will start it up and go a lil far. but we both claim were stright as could be. Im just pretty confused with everything at moment plz help.:what:


Like what everyone said its just curiosity, I think every boy has it at our age.
I act 'funny gay' with my friends. although were straight its just fun and games. :D

And for your girl problem i think you should confront her and tell her you would like things to be better between you two. :)

Good luck :D

[Donkey]

Well, you haven't really told us what you're doing. If you're inviting Russian hookers over to watch while you practice bareback until you make yourselves bleed, perhaps it's not normal. Experimentation is normal though and it comes from the newly released hormones in early puberty that cause curiosity of the same sex.

[nick]

A little bit of playing around with a friend is pretty common, its a combination of curiousness and horniness plus easy availablity with no strings attached. So long as you dont have feelings for each other its not an indication that you are bi or gay.

[ImCoolBeans]

well depends what you did

[Ihaveleftforever]

Thanks everyone but idk I am starting to feel a lil something for him....I just don't know....

[ImCoolBeans]

well there isnt anything wrong with that...
if your just fooling around i guess that could be kinda weird but idk it seems like a lot of ppl do that, so i wouldnt be concerned

[Ihaveleftforever]

Like what everyone said its just curiosity, I think every boy has it at our age.
I act 'funny gay' with my friends. although were straight its just fun and games. :D

And for your girl problem i think you should confront her and tell her you would like things to be better between you two. :)

Good luck :D

And Thanks to you :) ima try to re connect with her

[itisme]

i think this is normal, its just curiosity. most guys actually do experiment like this or think about as a teen. i think about it sometimes, just curiosity. message me if you like.

[Ihaveleftforever]

Alright thanks :) Nice to know im not the only person with funny feelings :D haha

[Firemisson]

Thanks everyone but idk I am starting to feel a lil something for him....I just don't know....



There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has to go through some experimentation to find out their sexuality right? :P

And if you are BI or Gay there's nothing wrong with that. :D

[Ihaveleftforever]

There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has to go through some experimentation to find out their sexuality right? :P

And if you are BI or Gay there's nothing wrong with that. :D

Thanks :) Ima visit my girl tomrrow and see how were doing there tomrrow haha Im all in a mess :D haha nah ill figure it all out

[Firemisson]

Thanks :) Ima visit my girl tomrrow and see how were doing there tomrrow haha Im all in a mess :D haha nah ill figure it all out


Good luck man. :D

[Ihaveleftforever]

Good luck man. :D

Thanks :D

[Fushigi]

we have the same feelings lol... and its really hard when u cant show that love/crush for that person :(

[paul955]

Well, you haven't really told us what you're doing. If you're inviting Russian hookers over to watch while you practice bareback until you make yourselves bleed, perhaps it's not normal. Experimentation is normal though and it comes from the newly released hormones in early puberty that cause curiosity of the same sex.
Absolutely hilarious.

[Nexus]

Thanks everyone but idk I am starting to feel a lil something for him....I just don't know....

Your emotions could also be misplaced. Since you said you guys have known each other since birth, he's probably someone you feel you can trust a lot more than most of your mates.

Do you know if your friend feels the same way?

[Deanodog72]

its called curiosity.

[swimmerjeff]

if you "feel something" for him, there's a chance you're bi or gay.

[jimmy-magic]

Good luck dude i hope it works out for you i really do.

[tyler007]

I know im a bit late , but i played baseball and we travle alot over the summer, and at least once a month too. Stay in the hotels and sleeping with freinds is normal. And my best freind and i always stay together and sleep in the same bed, and we are pretty touchy feely sometimes too. And do alot of stuff that might make other guys who did not know us think were were gay, (but were both pretty str8 too) I have had sexual experimentation with my freind, and it ok too.

[Zman2015]

Ya because I go. Camping alot and I sleep with my guy friend and we play with each other alot and we r str8

[Ihaveleftforever]

Thanks again everyone your all alot of help :D

[shartalot17]

you can be st8 and still experiment with guys. I only like girls in the love kinda way. I dont think i would ever kiss or tell a guy i experiment with that i love him. I date girls but i dont mind doing something with one of my guy friends. message me if you want to talk more!

[Ihaveleftforever]

Yes thanks for advice :D

[acid_rayne]

just curiosity :))

[Ihaveleftforever]

Thanks man and yea things have gotten much better :D

[Chriss]

im probably pretty late , but yeah just curiousity .
ive been in your position , trust me .
me n my friend have done quiteee a lot . XD
luck man !

[AudioCity]

A little bit of playing around with a friend is pretty common, its a combination of curiousness and horniness plus easy availablity with no strings attached. So long as you dont have feelings for each other its not an indication that you are bi or gay.

Agreed :) :yeah:

[liam13]

i guess its normal to experiment if i was in the same situation i would do the same thing just be careful not to hurt your gf feelings

[Coolboi]

It's cool good luck w/ ur girl

[smitty35]

Normal to do? Yes.

Its all just curiousity for you and your bff. I think its fine and normal. :)