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ShaneK
January 3rd, 2011, 09:01 PM
Where do you draw the line with what you'll do for friends?
ShutUpCasey
January 3rd, 2011, 09:03 PM
It depends. i'd let one of my friend but something from me... Hell.. I'd probably let them hide something minutely illegal with me. (as long as it wasn't really bad.) But I don't think I'd do anything sexual with my friends. :3 It really depends on what they're asking lol.
ShaneK
January 3rd, 2011, 09:09 PM
Depends a lot on which friend tis askin. Yea i'd hide things for people, get into fights for people. But sometimes with hindsight I regret doin somethings i've done.
ShutUpCasey
January 3rd, 2011, 09:20 PM
Well.. If they ask you to do whatever you regret doing again, just tell them straight up how you feel. Be like "Hey. I'm sorry, but I'm really not comfortable doing that. can you find someone else to do it for you please?" You have to tell your friends or else they're not going to know that you don't like something or else they're not going to know and they may ask you to do it again. It may even become an expectation for them after a while. Don't be afraid to be honest with your friends. Besides, if you don't mind me asking, what'd you do? o.o
ShaneK
January 4th, 2011, 03:40 AM
I have looked participated in minor and anything but minor crimes with the things I hace held for people including weapons as well as gettin into fights for people. For example I recently got into a fight with someone who sold a friend of mine drugs. Fine he ain't never gonna do that again, but the guy has friends. In hindsight not the smartest thing to do, I don't need that shit in my life now.
XxHaViiK
January 6th, 2011, 04:53 AM
Depends on the friend, depends on what they are asking. Sexual favors, no. Never. That's wrong in my opinion. If it was to hide something for them, blah blah blah, keep them out of trouble, then maybe. Still, it ultimately depends on the situation.
PJay
January 6th, 2011, 05:00 AM
I wouldn't do anything illegal unless I thought the law was stupid or maybe like they were innocent and needed time to prove it somehow. Can't think of any good examples of when i would but i can sympathise when i've seen things like that in films.
Sexually ... if it was a boy yes, and my bf was ok with it. Girl friends ... pretty limited what i'd want to do to be honest because of my orientation but in theory yeah.
Sith Lord 13
January 7th, 2011, 06:28 AM
I'd do anything a good friend asked of me, but a good friend wouldn't ask for something that I felt was inappropriate to ask for.
ShaneK
January 25th, 2011, 03:27 PM
Also depends on wat ya friend has done for you inb da past
Noooooooooo
January 25th, 2011, 04:28 PM
I would do my friends some favors if they return em :P I wouldn't do any dangerous or dumb favors though.
Dark_Hellfire
January 26th, 2011, 12:23 PM
Different friends, different limits. For example, my mate Ryan goes through money all the time cause he spends it on others to win affection. So I wouldn't do him a favour by lending him money but I might to another friend.
All up I have only 1 friend I would do any favour for no matter what
Andrew0017
January 26th, 2011, 08:32 PM
For the few people that I can honestly call my best friends, I would do just about anything for. (As long as it's not anything illegal. Favors within reason, obviously.)
Quahog
January 26th, 2011, 08:33 PM
When they ask me to do something illegal, or something they know is wrong. Then it's time to say no. Or when they tell you to do something that might kill you.
Hyper
January 26th, 2011, 08:37 PM
Nothing
Unless the request conflicts with my personal beliefs or if the request conflicts with the beliefs of the person I know as my friend
gingeylover14
January 27th, 2011, 11:11 AM
me and my friends dnt really have any limits on favors but we always respect each others no's to a favor esspecialy sexual ones
Fourth Dimension
January 27th, 2011, 11:32 AM
For Britny, Amanda, Kyle, Kia, Paul, Cortney I would do anything for
Bluesman
January 27th, 2011, 12:02 PM
All depends on the friend. I would probably say that even with my best friends I wouldn't do something illegal.
Fact
January 30th, 2011, 05:43 AM
I'd do anything a good friend asked of me, but a good friend wouldn't ask for something that I felt was inappropriate to ask for.
This basically.
Considering the friends I currently have, they don't generally ask all that much of me, and what they do ask is fairly straight forward. I also think that if they did ask me to do something for them that was inappropriate enough, then they wouldn't be my friend any more.
FullyAlive
January 30th, 2011, 07:55 AM
For my closest friends I'd do anything, but because we are close I know they won't ask anything of me that I'd be unwilling to do :)
ShaneK
February 15th, 2011, 08:27 PM
I believe loyality counts above all else.
The Dark Lord
February 16th, 2011, 03:25 AM
I believe loyality counts above all else.
Even when its not returned?
Kaius
February 16th, 2011, 05:03 AM
It depends on what they're asking for, the circumstances/situation and the person themselves. I won't risk heavy shit on my part if i know they wouldn't be willing to do it for me if i needed something.
ShaneK
February 16th, 2011, 05:38 AM
Loyality in ma book is like respect - it's earned and returned
badderanarchy
February 16th, 2011, 04:52 PM
It matter's who it is and what it is.
Continuum
February 17th, 2011, 11:03 AM
It's really when somebody goes against your personal beliefs, but that dissipates as trust begins to grow between me and whom I can consider as a friend.
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