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singeramber
January 3rd, 2011, 06:39 PM
I have been cut free for 4 months thanks to my 2 closest guy friends... but I have been having a really rough time due to family problems and having to involve police...
Today I was tidying my bed room when I found some old blades and sculpting equipment... I dont know what to do my head is saying do it... But I know I shouldnt...??
Help me please!:confused: :(
Love.Hate
January 3rd, 2011, 06:44 PM
It's not worth it.
You are doing amazingly! Don't waste that, you are strong you can fight this, please don't give in. I'm sorry to hear your going through a bad time, but if you cut it will only make things worse, keep strong xxx
Bath
January 3rd, 2011, 06:45 PM
Oh, trust me, I KNOW the temptation. It's terrible, isn't it? That's the whole object of the game here.. to resist. The only advice I can give you -- shut your eyes, count to 10, and go do something else. Listen to music, write, post on these forums. (:
If it's really bad, get an ice cube and rub it where you want to cut. It hurts, but does no damage.
I'd be a hypocrite if I said it was easy to resist. Because I fell into temptation earlier today. But we can only move forward.
You are not your blades. I know you can do it. and I'm always here to talk x
LittleEpidemic
January 3rd, 2011, 06:47 PM
4months is a very long time to have not cut
You should be proud of the fact you havnt
I dont think you should be back at square 1 for a few second release.
I say that you throw the tools you found in the bin, in a river, out a window ANYWHERE that youre not going to come across them again
If you dont think you can, ask your friend to help you
:) i know you can do it
singeramber
January 3rd, 2011, 06:47 PM
thanks girls... If only I could tell you wats going on... The temptation is pulling harder and harder I keep tryin to fall asleep but it is not working...
Bath
January 3rd, 2011, 06:50 PM
I believe in you. You are strong enough to resist.
LittleEpidemic
January 3rd, 2011, 06:51 PM
If youre trying to sleep maybe read a book or go make hot chocolate or toast?
Close your eyes and listen to your breathing and clear your head of everything else
All those things help me (:
I really hope whatevers happening gets better soon, words may not help right now but its the most i can do really "/
<3
smalltowngirl9189
January 3rd, 2011, 06:56 PM
You are strong! You can resist! Just trust us!
Love.Hate
January 3rd, 2011, 06:57 PM
Soothing music helps me sleep, you need to take your mind off it. Like it doesn't Exsist, tell your self you can resist. You are strong enough. We all believe in you, now start believing in yourself !! Xx
Weeping
January 3rd, 2011, 07:06 PM
Spoil the blades down the toilet or whatever to get rid of them.. And try doing something else, that you like to get your mind off it.
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