View Full Version : Did your dad talk to you about masturbation?
goat
January 2nd, 2011, 09:30 PM
I grew up in a catholic home. My father never discussed this with me. Did yours? Should parents discuss this?
Donkey
January 2nd, 2011, 09:32 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? N
If he did, are you glad he did? N/A
If not, do you wish he did? N
If he did, did he say it was ok? He's said it's OK generally before
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? I had no fear before.
obbylue
January 2nd, 2011, 09:35 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? Nobody did
If he did, are you glad he did?
If not, do you wish he did? Eh, not really, lol
If he did, did he say it was ok? He's never said anything about it.
If he said it was OK, did it take a all the fear? I wasn't scared before either.
sounddude
January 2nd, 2011, 09:40 PM
Only my younger cousin (by 9 months), he was taught by his teenage uncle (17) and passed on the fun to me when I was 11 or who knows when I would have figured out the fun...
chase.
January 2nd, 2011, 09:51 PM
No, my brother and I both just used each other. i always thought that would be awkward?
Sebastian Michaelis
January 2nd, 2011, 09:56 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? yes
If he did, are you glad he did? yes
If not, do you wish he did? if he never did id wish he would
If he did, did he say it was ok? yes
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? yes
Infidelitas
January 4th, 2011, 04:41 AM
My mum gave me the "chat". :S
Craig1995
January 4th, 2011, 06:23 AM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? NO
If he did, are you glad he did?
If not, do you wish he did? NO WAY!
If he did, did he say it was ok?
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? Emm probably
indieboy
January 4th, 2011, 07:46 AM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? NO
If he did, are you glad he did? --
If not, do you wish he did? NO WOULD BE EMBARRASING
If he did, did he say it was ok?
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear?
nick
January 4th, 2011, 10:55 AM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? no, thank goodness
If he did, are you glad he did?
If not, do you wish he did? no, too awkward and embarassing
If he did, did he say it was ok?
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? what fear?
Fourth Dimension
January 4th, 2011, 11:10 AM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation?not my dad my older cousin(my mom sister and i had just moved my dad was in a different town so my older cousin like 25 26 years old decided since my dad wasnt around he would give me the talk since i just turned 13 him being a father thought it was a good idea)
If he did, are you glad he did?
eh it wasnt horrible he honestly just told me the facts about eveything not just masturbation but that subject did come up
If not, do you wish he did?
If he did, did he say it was ok?oh yea he said it was totally normal and that he does it which was tmi in my opinion
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? eh
ShootTheRunner
January 4th, 2011, 12:16 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? Nope, never been need to (already know it all)
If he did, are you glad he did?
If not, do you wish he did? Nope, it would just be needlessly embarassing!
If he did, did he say it was ok?
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear?
notsure101
January 4th, 2011, 03:50 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? Nope
If he did, are you glad he did? N/A
If not, do you wish he did? Nope
If he did, did he say it was ok? N/A
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? N/A
smitty35
January 4th, 2011, 04:53 PM
The answer for all of your questions for me is: no. BUT, I will not mind if my son(s) jack off. If you tell a boy to stop jacking, that's like telling him to stop giving himself the best feeling a man can experiance! And I will probably talk to my sons about masterbation.
ccrunner
January 4th, 2011, 05:56 PM
I've never talked about it with my dad but we have talked bout sex and I would still be scared to do it even if he said he comfterble with it, I mean about being caught
Mandala
January 4th, 2011, 06:43 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation?
If he did, are you glad he did? /
If not, do you wish he did? If it was my older cousin, yes but not if it was my father o uncle, it would be too akward!
If he did, did he say it was ok? /
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? /
Sean the Griffin
January 4th, 2011, 07:02 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? idk, he once said he and mom would always knock on my door and wait for an answer cos they knew that now I was older I needed privacy sometimes and I remember thinking wtf is he talking about (nothing new there lol) but now I think thats what he meant.
If he did, are you glad he did? Glad he didnt talk about j/o
If not, do you wish he did? No too embarassing
If he did, did he say it was ok? I guess he meant that
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? Id been doing it for a year, there wasnt any fear
janthem
January 4th, 2011, 08:08 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation? noone has
If he did, are you glad he did? n/a
If not, do you wish he did? hells ta the no lol
If he did, did he say it was ok? n/a
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear? fear about wat? lol
Ace7
January 4th, 2011, 08:33 PM
Did your dad (or another male family member if he's not around much) talk with you about masturbation?kinda
If he did, are you glad he did?Yep, it made me more comfortable with masturbation than before.
If not, do you wish he did?n/a
If he did, did he say it was ok?yeah
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear?pretty much
Tristin.
January 4th, 2011, 08:35 PM
This whole survey implies my father actualy talks to us lol :P
Did your dad (or another male family member) talk with you about masturbation? MY BROTHER AND I TALKED TO EACH OTHER
If he did, are you glad he did?N/a
If not, do you wish he did?n/a
If he did, did he say it was ok?N/A
If he said it was OK, did it take away all the fear?N/A
Nancy Boy
January 4th, 2011, 09:29 PM
Hehe. No. I've never gotten 'the talk', But my parents know I do it, I mean, HONESTLY, how many guys don't do it? Your Dad did it more than likely. xD
ITSGUCCITIME
January 19th, 2011, 10:15 PM
No he didn't but I think they should
CBTurner
January 19th, 2011, 10:29 PM
No. :₩ (<--- Lol, what is that?)
josh6387
January 24th, 2011, 07:23 PM
My dad really didn't give me the talk, he gave me a book. complete with illustrations. epic win for my dad. lol
greekboy
January 25th, 2011, 05:17 PM
My Dad never raised the subject with me and at the time when I wanted some info (12-13) the last place I would have wanted it from was my Dad.
aaron4455
January 25th, 2011, 05:22 PM
nope and i think it would b awkwared for me but i think some perents should
teenageapplelover
January 25th, 2011, 07:19 PM
He hasn't talked to me about it, no. I wouldn't want him to, because I think he objects to it. When I have kids, if they are boys, I will talk to them about it. I will tell them it's alright, and where/how to do it, and how to clean up.
ponygon101
January 26th, 2011, 01:19 AM
My father said nothing about the subject and I'm glad he didn't. It's just one less awkward conversation to have.
Sebastian Michaelis
January 26th, 2011, 01:28 AM
No mine didn't but if i have a son(s) I will tell them about it and say it's ok and be very open about all aspects of life when my son(s) the appropriate age.
austin callahan
January 26th, 2011, 02:14 AM
yeahhh my parents had "the talk" with me and once my mom started talking about my penis...i walked away lmao
Skeptical Bear
January 26th, 2011, 02:32 AM
I'd die if I get the talk.
nickkstar
January 26th, 2011, 08:02 AM
no, i do not live with him, i heard some people talking bout it, and i did it :)
carlotte
January 26th, 2011, 10:12 AM
never did. my parents separated since i was 4 mnths old as what my grannies told me. and never wish for that kind of talk when im with my family (grannies, uncle's, aunt's)
Dark_Hellfire
January 26th, 2011, 12:21 PM
All self taught myself :) *worries* oh god I hope I am doing it right
randomlyonhere
January 26th, 2011, 12:48 PM
my dad didn't, i wonder what he would have said, but im glad he didnt say anything lol. i will prolly talk about it to my son(s) though
Benny.
January 26th, 2011, 01:29 PM
Nope, luckily not :)
Bluesman
January 26th, 2011, 02:15 PM
Neither of my parents ever discussed it and I'm actually really glad
greekboy
January 26th, 2011, 02:50 PM
my dad didn't, i wonder what he would have said, but im glad he didnt say anything lol. i will prolly talk about it to my son(s) though
Yes, I'd like to think that I would be able to do this although i'd havd hated it if my dad had done it with me.
Dimitri
January 26th, 2011, 04:46 PM
I can actually quote what my dad said, "Robert remember, dick gets hard, brain goes dead!" And that was it.
Cudder
January 26th, 2011, 05:12 PM
My dad never gave me the talk
PAfarmerkid
January 26th, 2011, 06:21 PM
I never got a talk from anyone, my dad hasnt been around since I was like 10 and my mom never talks bout anything, wich Im sooo happy they didnt, one less awkward talk, lol.
Apollo.
January 26th, 2011, 06:29 PM
Never has, hope he never does way to embarrassing and awkward
pawn12
January 27th, 2011, 08:39 PM
no he didn't think goodness. that would be weirddddd
neigh
January 30th, 2011, 01:07 AM
i go to an all boys catholic jr high and sr high school. My step father sort of talk about puberty and stuff but not into great detail. we did have sex class in school. we were told all guys jerk off even the pope. i wouldn't lose any sleep over whack off. all guys do.
dahardy9
January 30th, 2011, 04:53 AM
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kevmon
February 5th, 2011, 02:02 AM
no my dad did not I found out about jacking off when I was in grade 7 when I was on the bus some graed 12 guys told me about jacking off so I went home and stated that day
Mysterious Skin
February 5th, 2011, 03:04 AM
Dad Never Told me
My Friend Did
I'd Given A bj Before I Masturbated.
John Marston
February 5th, 2011, 03:08 AM
No need to. My mum already knows I know about that type of stuff. I don't think anyone else really cares/i think everyone else also knows I do. So i'm happy about that.
jhp_813
February 5th, 2011, 11:26 AM
My Dad Didnt But My Mom Did She Said iT Was Fine
oreolover
February 5th, 2011, 05:12 PM
both of my parents discuss this subject with me and say that its ok to do it as long it is private
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