how can i telll...

[paranoid1]

i'm pretty sure asking how i could ask a friend to j/o with me is against the rules, so i'm gonna ask something a little different....
but if it's not against the rules, than that's part of the question :D

but, i asked him already and he said naah, but the way i asked kinda seemed like i was joking, so is there any way i can tell if he wants to or not without asking?

[sounddude]

i'm pretty sure asking how i could ask a friend to j/o with me is against the rules, so i'm gonna ask something a little different....
but if it's not against the rules, than that's part of the question :D

but, i asked him already and he said naah, but the way i asked kinda seemed like i was joking, so is there any way i can tell if he wants to or not without asking?

not sure either, so I'll just say what's happened to me and maybe it will help?
On a sleepover my friend and I were watchin a movie that was boring and we started talking about sex stuff and I showed him a couple of sites i look at and we both tented up big time, So after awhile I suggested we get under the covers...then we kind of dared each other on stuff and compared boners...his was uncut so I asked him how he jacked and he said we should just do it so I could see...and we did.

[chase.]

I don't know. It's hard to tell. Maybe just kind of... idk. Just watch porn together and start jacking off

[CaliKiDD]

nah prolly means no lol try another friend

[smitty35]

mabye he wants to, but he's scared. Dont force him into a decision.

[cantwebefriends]

Just start watching porn and start doddling around with your self and just keeep going with the flow and if he see the chance of a little secret signal that ur cool with it he may join in

[notsure101]

I wouldnt press it if he said no cause it could ruin your relationship as friends.

[Nancy Boy]

I wouldnt press it if he said no cause it could ruin your relationship as friends.

Yeah. No does, infact, mean NO. x)

[Donkey]

Don't push him to do something he doesn't want to. No means no, if you respect your friend you respect that.

[ShootTheRunner]

Speaking from experience:

Perhaps he's scared that *you're* joking, and doesn't want to say yes if that's right.

I agree with the above advice - start off just like watching porn together and you'll get boners, ask if he wants to wank under the covers (or start wanking and let him join in). Let it evolve from there :)

[Donkey]

Speaking from experience:

Perhaps he's scared that *you're* joking, and doesn't want to say yes if that's right.

I agree with the above advice - start off just like watching porn together and you'll get boners, ask if he wants to wank under the covers (or start wanking and let him join in). Let it evolve from there :)
Lol no, not everyone wants to mutually masturbate. If he's said no, that's as far as anyone should go. Making someone do something they obviously feel uncomfortable with is only going to hurt a friendship. It's peer pressure and it's utterly wrong, you may be horny but frankly you don't make your friend suffer for it.

[1_21Guns]

you're still asking how to get your friend to masturbate with you, which as you know is against the rules, changing the phrasing doesn't make it any less against the rules, none the less you got some answers :locked: