Mom ,, im bisexual deal with it !

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

Okay well i have known i was bisexual since i was about 12/13 when i first kissed my bestfriend ... but my mom walked in on me and her and she sent me to a boarding school in London which i told everyone i was completly straight because i was scared (my mom had just practically thrown me out for being bi i wasnt going to go round telling everyone ). I came back to Manchester in July to go to a private school there in y11 so i came back to live with her , She was all okay until i met a girl a few weeks ago ... she is amazing and i really have fallen for her she is a lesbian so ino everything is okay there :yeah: .
I really want to ask her out ... but i dont no what to do ?
Im scared hwat will happen if my mom finds out ...
has anyone had a smililer problem ... ?
What happened to you ? :what:

[Donkey]

If your mum thinks going to boarding school will change your sexuality, she has another thing coming. I don't have a similar problem. To be honest, I'd write a very carefully worded letter explaining how you feel and pointing out you're still the same beautiful, wonderful daughter as she's always known you.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

yess but at boarding school im not her problem
im not going to 'embarres' her infront of her friends.
thankyou Donkeyy :)xx

[Donkey]

Even at boarding school, she still loves you. Else she wouldn't have bothered sending you.

[Dunce]

Don't worry if your mom will find out. If you're careful, the chances are she wont. But even if she does it doesn't matter. She has to know that you're not going to change and you want to be happy the way you are. You're not the bad guy here, your mom is for hiding you from her friends.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

Thankyou :) x

[Charleigh]

Aww I went through the same thing.
You cant force someone to accept something that they dont want to hear, unforchanatley people choose what they listen to. As long as you know who you are, and you accept yourself, your perfect hunny. Dont worry about what your parent's say, they wouldnt be able to understand.
As for the boarding school, I think you need to maybe have a sit down and talk to your parents about it. Boarding school isnt going to do anything at all.
Good Luck.

[scuba steve]

Your mum's acting like a fool go out with this girl and it'll act as a big "fuck you" to your mum that nothing has changed and she needs to accept you the way you are.
It's funny that I'm listening to Firework - Katy Perry, how very appropriate :)

[Charleigh]

Your mum's acting like a fool go out with this girl and it'll act as a big "fuck you" to your mum that nothing has changed and she needs to accept you the way you are.
It's funny that I'm listening to Firework - Katy Perry, how very appropriate :)

Is Katy Perry - Firework to do with sexuality?!

[scuba steve]

Is Katy Perry - Firework to do with sexuality?!

Nah, it's just like all to do with having the courage and personal acceptance etc. so it's makes sense. :P

[Charleigh]

Nah, it's just like all to do with having the courage and personal acceptance etc. so it's makes sense. :P

Oh lol. That's pretty awesome ^^