gross....down there

[theoneandonly]

So, hi there..I'm new and created an account to ask this question.
My vagina is really gross..all the girls my age have cute perfect ones
and I'm so embarrassed to get undressed in front of people or have sex because of it.
Typically your labia minora (inner lips) are smaller than the labia majora (outer lips).
and typically the labia minora are Asymmetrical (same length)
1 of my labia minora is short and nice and the other one is very long and big
and gross and i'm really self conscious about it. (I hope this is all making sense.)
As I said, I NEVER get undresses in front of people and never have sex because I'm afraid
other people are gonna think it's gross or my boyfriend won't wanna be with me.
Is this normal? (and before you go saying it is I've looked up online and have never seen a vagina with different sized inner lips)
would it bother you?
Is there anything I can do to change it?

Thanks so much!

[Dunce]

It's completely normal :P You'd think young girls have perfect area's but noooo... A friend of mine said to me that hers looks like a turkeys neck xD The labia can be any size, some labia majora are longer but sometimes theyre actually shorter that the labia minora. You'd be surprised how many girls you know think they're abnormal dow below.

[DreamerGirl]

thats normal. Every girls vagina looks different just like every guys penis looks different. you shouldnt be embarrassed

[Veronica_kitty]

its totally normal.
my inner lips are much longer than my outer and pretty puffy even when im not turned on. when im standing normal in front of a mirror, you can see very much parts of my vagina.
one of my friends vagina is totally different like mine as it was when i was a little girl although she is 15 and pretty done with body developing.
and another friend of mine has a very big and visible clitoris.

never listen to idiots when they tell you your vag is not normal, because there is no "not normal".
and by the way: my boyfriend loves me down there

[McMuffin]

Trust me, thoughts are deciving! My inner lips are longer than as apposed to my outer

[Fact]

So, hi there..I'm new and created an account to ask this question.
My vagina is really gross..all the girls my age have cute perfect ones
and I'm so embarrassed to get undressed in front of people or have sex because of it.
Typically your labia minora (inner lips) are smaller than the labia majora (outer lips).

You don't have to compare yourself to other people to feel that you are 'normal', everyone is different in one way or another and you should be able to feel comfortable in your own body.


and typically the labia minora are Asymmetrical (same length)
1 of my labia minora is short and nice and the other one is very long and big
and gross and i'm really self conscious about it. (I hope this is all making sense.)

Asymmetry is used to describe two sides not being the same (not symmetrical) so it is perfectly normal and healthy to have different size and shape labia, you're not weird or 'ugly'.

As I said, I NEVER get undresses in front of people and never have sex because I'm afraid
other people are gonna think it's gross or my boyfriend won't wanna be with me.

If a boy doesn't want to be with you because of the appearance of you genitals doesn't match his expectations, then he didn't want to be with you in the first place. Also, there's nothing wrong with not wanting to expose your body when you're not comfortable with it, but given time I hope you'll accept that there's nothing wrong with what you've described!


Is this normal? (and before you go saying it is I've looked up online and have never seen a vagina with different sized inner lips)
would it bother you?
Is there anything I can do to change it?

As I've said multiple times, it is very normal to have different size and shape labia. Personally, it wouldn't bother me very much because I think there are more important things than the appearance of labia.
If you were still really desperate to change the appearance of your labia as an adult, then I believe surgery is possible. However this may not solve your problem in that it'd still cause pain and you'd be likely to end up with some form of scarring.

In short, learn to like what you've got!
I hope this helps ^^

[jet7up]

I think the lips of my vagina are big enough too.
I've never seen another girl's vagina, excepting a few pictures on the internet.
The first time I took a mirror and I looked at my vagina, but do not worry, no boy ever told me he doesn't like my sex) lol

[katiee_x]

I totally agree, mine aren't differently sized but they stick out. :(
I'm 13 and sometimes I wish I could just cut them off with scissors.
My mum says it's fine and with age they will just go normal...
But I'm not convinced..
I'm scared surgery will go wrong.
And every time I look at a girl I seem to wonder if they have the same problem:/
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months or so and my mum wants to have you know "the chat." But I'm scared no-one will ever want to do it with me because of them...
I'm scared of what he'll think if we DO do it, in a year or two. I went to the doctors but she said I'd have to wait until I was 16 for surgery. :(!

[Charleigh]

That's normal lol.
There are actually different variety's of vagina's, sound's funny but it's true lol.

[karnivore]

It's perfectly normal, you really shouldn't be worried. But if you're really self-concious about it, you could get surgery (but don't make the change for someone else; make it for you ;))

[jet7up]

I totally agree, mine aren't differently sized but they stick out. :(
I'm 13 and sometimes I wish I could just cut them off with scissors.
My mum says it's fine and with age they will just go normal...
But I'm not convinced..
I'm scared surgery will go wrong.
And every time I look at a girl I seem to wonder if they have the same problem:/
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months or so and my mum wants to have you know "the chat." But I'm scared no-one will ever want to do it with me because of them...
I'm scared of what he'll think if we DO do it, in a year or two. I went to the doctors but she said I'd have to wait until I was 16 for surgery. :(!

Do not do any surgery. My vagina lips stick out, too :yummy: I had three bf and no one told me this is ugly :) instead they enjoyed playing with my lips :D:D:D

[Conan]

every body said that my vagina is cute but i don't belive it

[kelly820]

I think that would be considered normal, but like someone else mentioned if it bothers you that much you can get surgery. you should ask your Dr. about it. but also like she mentioned, do it for yourself not someone else.

[lovemyhair93]

Hay

I just opened here and seeing your post.

You are not the only one . Me too have similar ddown there. Though i had normal looking cute vagina till i was 15. Then i dunno when but now it is similar . my both inner lips are very big and dangling. I never shave and it gets hidden in the thick and long hair growth.

Though i dont feel any reason to be emberrassed. Rather i noticed that its one of major attraction to guys.

I am not worried about it. i go wearing tiniest bikinis on the beach even it pops out of my bikini many times.
my both

[Veronica_kitty]

hehe, my boyfriend calls my vagina "little butterfly" because it looks like one when he spreads my lips. though the butterfly got very long wings :) he loves me and i am proud of my body.
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from "lovemyhair93" above my post:
Though i dont feel any reason to be emberrassed. Rather i noticed that its one of major attraction to guys.

I am not worried about it. i go wearing tiniest bikinis on the beach even it pops out of my bikini many times.
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i absolutely sign this, though sometimes its uncomfortable when the lips are hanging out and you dont notice it or forget to check on them before coming out of the water.

[ShinigamiMaiden]

I feel so much better after reading this thread :L i have the same thing and i felt exactly the same. i even went to the doctors about it at one point, the nurse told me i was normal and i was relieved.

[solosarah]

It's completely cool, one night in my Internet searchs I came across a native American chart comparing gentalia to animals. Lol I'm an deer woman. Except what you got cause it isn't changing. If any guy ever comments on it close the muffin shop for good.

[MissPenguin]

There is nothing to worry yourself about, everybody is different and you don't need to compare yourself to anybody, besides most girls breasts are different sizes too and no one really complains about that...lol

[maddy14]

I feel so much better after reading this thread :L i have the same thing and i felt exactly the same. i even went to the doctors about it at one point, the nurse told me i was normal and i was relieved.

Agreed. I feel much better hearing Im not the only one!

[TrAnSMaN09]

hey hun, it doesnt matter what it looks like, your boyf willl still love you, trust me iv had lots of prob;ms with mine,i've actully had my outer lips swell up for reason, So its ok hun

[jet7up]

my both inner lips are very big and dangling. I noticed that its one of major attraction to guys

We have to ask them why they like our big lips :yes: :)



i go wearing tiniest bikinis on the beach even it pops out of my bikini many times

I understand very well because I have the same problem as you.
Unfortunately, when I go to the pool or beach, the boys look between my legs :D

[Sogeking]

Don't bump old threads.

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