Fuck This!

[MeThoD]

Im tired of getting my ass kicked by my moms boyfriend! whenever shes away he will kick my ass since he has had a bad day at work.
I can take a few punches and all but then hell punch me in my face leaving huge bruises and me spiting up blood. i keep having to make more excuses explaining to my mom what happened and if i told her the truth he said he kill me, literally kill me. what should i do hes a complete physcho when no one is around and a gentlemen when everyone is. not to long ago while getting beat up i ran to my room took a baseball bat and smacked him over the head. he was bleeding and while he was down i kicked him and spit in his face. i told my mom we were playing baseball and the bat flew out of my hands. and im affraid when he gets better and recovers he will kick my ass when shes gone. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!
Also today i walked by and he tripped me and smashed a beer bottle over my head. IM SICK OF THIS AND IM ABOUT TO BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM WITH MY BASEBALL BAT IF HE DOES IT AGAIN AND I WONT STOP

[infextus disease]

talk to her and in the same day talk to your school conselor or police officer if your school has one. other wise contact the police asap. becuase that is not right... and even if they dont do anything the first time they do have to file a report of domestic violence... if this ends up going to court those accounts of domestic violence will be helpful in your behalf to have justice served. if you do not feel comfortable talking to the police about it right away, right down your account of events and be as detailed as possible... also if you can take pictures of what hes done to you. again these can be very helpful in proving your case. but above all you NEED to talk to somone, your mom, conselor, police w/e but you need to tell somone about this.

[MeThoD]

thanks, ill talk to someone about it. also i need help real fast. how can i go from the upstairs and go to the bathroom which is downstairs without getting seen by him(you have to walk throught the living room where he is.) im really scared and i can hear him cussing and stuff downstairs

[Barelythere]

do you need the loo then?
did you or or are you still waiting to go?
erm is there no where u could use the loo upstairs?!? i dont think its a good idea to go down stairs esp if you can here him cussing ect, go with your gut feelign eg your scared so dont go down, if ur really that despareate use a bottle :P if you can
if you need to go to the bathroom not for that then id wait till he leaves the room and dash down, or wait till he falls asleep, and b prepared to have to wait in the bathroom a while till he leaves the next room again so take sumin with you eg book! lol i no that sounds sooo stupid but ive had to do it before, got stuck somewhere for 2hours waiting for my dad to leave the next room so i could go back to my room!! just b slowish as well when ppl rush to much there easier to hear! hope your ok huni

please tell someone, this is bad, its not fair, and if you dont it will carry on, and you will wish you had told before it got worse, hope this is some help,
love xoxox

[mRojas2000]

I think you should tell your mom what he really does... he won't kill you... your mom will be there for you, and she will most likely trust you, and tell the police... if she really was your mom, and she trusted you, then she will listen to you!!
Don't let that bastard get you down man!! :hug:

Take care!!
Miguel

[weber]

God damn it I really hate the bastards that beat the hell out of younger people, why can’t he just smash his head against the wall…. Anyway, you should really tell your mom, as I told Jordo, she loves you above anything and will protect you. I would also tell a counselor or the police, what they can do is hide a camera and record him while he’s beating you (I’m sorry if I’m suggesting this, you getting beat up again, it’s not fair at all), though policemen can be waiting outside your house, so that if he starts beating you they can come into your house and arrest him once for all, with enough evidence to make it as long as a life time. Also if you could take pictures of the things he does to you, that would really help on the case, and don’t be afraid of telling every single detail to the police cause when they have more evidence against him it’s better for you. I really wish you get through this without any other harm against you, and that the bastard goes to jail 4 ever. I really wish you luck with this, and be strong. Take care of yourself.

[TheWizard]

Trust me tell your mom.

[Bobby]

Tell your mom or another family member. If you feel those relationships aren't strong enough tell the police.

[Sapphire]

Hunni, you have to tell someone. If you feel that your mum isn't the best person to tell initaly (sp?) then another family member or a police officer would be best. Either way she has to know and so do the police. This must be stopped and it will only stop when you let people know what is happening and let them help you.

[MeThoD]

well he tried to attack me yesterday and my mom walked in. she told me to go upstairs and i could hear them yelling then i hear SMACK, i take my bat ran downstairs smacked him in the back and another in the stomach. he smacked my mom. i called the cops and they took him away. he will prob. be in jail for a lil but what happens if he gets out or doesnt even go to jail. he said he will kill us if he gets out

[mRojas2000]

He will, most likely, go to jail... if he doesn't, or he goes out, I'm pretty sure that the police will be after you guys/him for a couple of months... just make sure you lock the doors, set an emercency alarm, I mean, anything you can do to make sure that if he ever gets near you, someone other than you will know.

[weber]

First of all, I’m really glad to hear he’s finally in jail, how are you btw? Are you and your ok?... what you can do is change the locks of your house and keep them locked always, and mention his threat to the police and ask for extra protection. Also, if you decide to press charges against him (which I will do), give every single detail of how he use to beat you, and how you had to protect yourself and your mom with the bat… ask for life guaranties.
Take care of yourself and your mom, I’m sure you both need each other now more than ever, so be there for her and count on her when you need someone… just remember that you have all our support (if that helps you somehow) and we’ll be here unconditionally for anything you need.

[Jordo]

that guys a dick I hope he has to stay in jail for a looong time and if he ever comes to your house phone the cops then and there and take care

[TheWizard]

I'm glad you took a stand. Now you just have to stay strong and protect yourself if he comes back. A baseball bat should do the trick.

[Barelythere]

aww hun, im sorry he hit your mom, i hope she is ok, and your self, are you ok? how you holding up?
i am soo proud you took a stand and called the cops, hopefully he should never bother or hurt you again, as others have said before, chnge the locks and ask the police for extra protection or something, i hope your life gets so much better for you now, you deserve it hun :hug:
love x

[Bobby]

We had a situation in my neighborhood where the guy beat his wife and she called the police. It was a big deal. He's on parol now. They changed their locks and all of their information.

[MeThoD]

ok heres a lil update.
me and my mom are both fine and that maniac is in jail for 2years and then when he comes out he cant come within 10,000 yards of us

[mRojas2000]

Yay for you :)
Remember to watch out after those 2 years pass by tho...
Have a great time ;)

[~Ðarç~]

Nice, keep using that bat, I have a bat in my room (metal) just incase :) But I like the idea of hitting this dude with a bat, Im glad he's in jail, he's just a fuckin retard :)

[shadowman]

dude in two years get a gun. or ask ur mom to get one. just incase. never use it to hurt someone. use it as self defense if he comes back. because im pretty sure he might come back with the grudge to kill you. and if he is seriosly gonnna try and kill you he will most likely use a gun aswell.

[TheWizard]

This is a perfect example of what VT is all about. Helping each other and being there when someone needs help.

[Shadow74]

If i was like your friend at school and you told me as a secret i woulda tried to kill him for ya i wouldnt be scared of the fucker

[JoshDude]

This sort of thing makes me very angry. It makes me want to kill this guy. But unfortunately i can't. If i were you, i would tell my mother, and call the police.

[jinzo22]

Yea, I know what you are going through. My moms old boyfriend used to hit her, he never hit me though, but he's threatened me. Now my mom has a restraining order.
It is possible that that guy is on steriods. Thats what he did.

[TedM]

You have legal abilitys to strike/injure/kill him, if he attacks you, you have the LEGAL ability to grab a weapon and attack him. IF you do get taken to court, or questioned by the police, you just need to provide one simple statement "I was in fear of my life, I defended myself as he attacked me." Just incase, leave a note where someone can see it, if they searched the house, if you have any spare change, go to a pay phone and call the cops, and have him arrested, and if you have any marks, bruises, or any proof he has attacked you, he could befaceing some jail time, and being someones girlfriend for awhile.

[Underground_Network]

Actually its not legal to kill someone. Even if you claim self-defense, even if you had a restraining order, its still not legal to kill someone. You can still do time behind bars. Trust me killing someone does worse emotional damage than getting beaten. Some people become addicted to it or some can never get over the fact that the ended another human's life, no matter how bad that person was. Killing is not the answer, it could lead to suicide, or could seriously screw you up. Don't kill unless its the last choice you've got. And even when it is the last choice avoid it at all costs. If you have a gun shoot him in the leg or in the arm, not in the face or the chest. If he dies it will prove not to be your intention, but if he just walks up to you and you shoot him in the face, you could face manslaughter charges (assuming it was not premeditated.)

[thisisjohn]

i gotta tell it to you man, youre are one brave kid. if youre any sort of catholic or christian, ill tell you right now youre going to heaven man. I MEAN, YOU JUST SAVED YOUR MOM!!! now about "him killing you and youre mom," dont fright about that, if the police heard it, then they got it covered. man i cant believe it though. you ran downstairs and smacked him with a bat! youre a brave kid. i hope you and youre mom live happily from here on.

[TheWizard]

Wow my problems seem so small compared to you.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

i gotta say man... you are a brave kid.. dude if i went threw what youv been threw.. i wouldnt of coped...

[Bi-Girl01]

OMG u r such a BRAVE guy, i cna;t believ ur mum's EX-boyfriedn though, god wat an idiot.

i'm glad he;s in jail but yeah, take ALL of the advice (apart from killing HIM) form therse guys, change ur locks tell the police etc..

i am sooo sorry tha tu had to go through this but i wish u and ur mum the VERY BEST of luck and hope that she finds a GREAT lover, she deserves it and u deserve a better life too ^,^

good luck and liek said ealier, every1 here is here 4 u always unconditionally. ^,^

[Bi-Girl01]

OMG u r such a BRAVE guy, i cna;t believ ur mum's EX-boyfriedn though, god wat an idiot.

i'm glad he;s in jail but yeah, take ALL of the advice (apart from killing HIM) form therse guys, change ur locks tell the police etc..

i am sooo sorry tha tu had to go through this but i wish u and ur mum the VERY BEST of luck and hope that she finds a GREAT lover, she deserves it and u deserve a better life too ^,^

good luck and liek said ealier, every1 here is here 4 u always unconditionally. ^,^

[Ethannnnnn]

all i know is that in most countrys killing or hurting someone in self-defence is not illegal and its good that he has been put into jail and definetly change the locks and if he gets out and you are really worried about it move out of your current city

[northskater110]

god job m8, xcept next time he comes around, hit him in the jewels, then he wont screw wit ya again

but goddam kid, u got some mad fucking guts...

heres to u m8

[sashoma]

wow man i have bad thigns in my life but holy shit!!my problems r ealy small compared to that im glad hes in jaill and my advice would to be to move to a new place and get new cellphone # and stuff and like said b4 uer fuckin brawve man!!
heres to u!

[Glenn]

man ur really brave im not sure if i wuda been as brave as u were but u never know when in a situation like urs ,,, ur more capable then u might think u are ... such as given a twat adult boyfriend a beating .

for good measure i keep a baseball bat under my bed, along with a very very nice thing that i call the "head smasher" ok so i wont go into that now.

well done Method ur a credit to society , i for one agree anyway

[Antares]

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[helpingman]

First off, stop this maddeness by getting help. If it means going right across the street or something to a neighbors house then do it, have them call the police. The police will believe you. It's just something you have to trust. Also you are communicating with us by internet, send messages to your friends and tell them you need there and there pearents help immdedenlty. Next i'd take some kind of weapon (could be anything from a bat to a few paper clips ) when you go around him.

Get help immdednely. Theres no exusse for abuse.

[Look whos here!]

Id say beat the living hell outta him!and tell the police

[laurenfloyd1]

thats just sad:confused:

[Berodas]

keep us updated in 2 years about it

[heartagram72]

o well u called the cops
good job.
i was goona say invest in a gun and tell him if he comes closer u shoot then u call the cops.
but good job
i dont know WHAT i would do if some1 was doing that to me.....u r a very strong person for being able to do this

[Camazotz]

I would tell the cops.If they cant help, do what I would. Get your towns football team. Take him into a dark ally.(hiding the team) And they all lived happily ever after. (He cant, cuz hes dead.

[Maverick]

Alright seeing that it's been resolved ;

ok heres a lil update.
me and my mom are both fine and that maniac is in jail for 2years and then when he comes out he cant come within 10,000 yards of us

And this thread is old, to prevent any more necessary posts like above, this thread is now locked.

JFYI, if a thread is old and it has been resolved, it's best to just let the thread die. Think before bumping a thread to see if it's really necessary.