Mariiniitahh
January 1st, 2011, 08:22 PM
So ive been with this guy for a little over 4 months now. i mean everything at first was great, we used to be neighbors so i would see him often and every weekend we would kick it together. After being with him for like 2 months he moved out of his parent's house and now its hard for us to see each other for several reasons. First of all my parents dont really like him because we got caught one night when he snuck in my room and he blamed it all on himself when he spoke to my mom (it was my fault too though) and he lives like an hour away from my house by foot so its hard for him to come. Even though we're both in highschool (hes a junior im a freshman) we dont go to the same school. He lost his phone so a few times he would text me from his friend's cellphone but well its just not the same anymore.
He came to see me the 23rd and we talked about all this and he promised he would make the effort to see me at least every week. The next day he texted me that he didn't want to hurt me anymore so he wanted to leave it as friends because he couldn't come see me like he should so that he just doesnt wanna hurt me. I called him because i wanted to hear it from his own lips and he basically said the same thing, i said i loved him and he said he did too but that it wasnt fair for me. i asked if he wanted to give it another try and after a long pause he said "ok".
so now im stuck, i love his boy with all my heart and when im with him it seems like he does too. i just dont know what's best. should i make the effort to let him go and leave it as friends like he said? or should i really try to find the way to see him more often and talk to him in person to make things work out and give it just one more try? what do you guys think?
He came to see me the 23rd and we talked about all this and he promised he would make the effort to see me at least every week. The next day he texted me that he didn't want to hurt me anymore so he wanted to leave it as friends because he couldn't come see me like he should so that he just doesnt wanna hurt me. I called him because i wanted to hear it from his own lips and he basically said the same thing, i said i loved him and he said he did too but that it wasnt fair for me. i asked if he wanted to give it another try and after a long pause he said "ok".
so now im stuck, i love his boy with all my heart and when im with him it seems like he does too. i just dont know what's best. should i make the effort to let him go and leave it as friends like he said? or should i really try to find the way to see him more often and talk to him in person to make things work out and give it just one more try? what do you guys think?