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[laurenbraidy]

hi, im not sure if this is in the right one or not but i need some help/advice

im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been dating since we were 16, we decided at the start of last year that we were both ready for sex, but our problem is, he can keep his erection while oral sex but when he puts the condom on he cant stay hard but so no condom can go on, but after that it gets hard again.

any help to why this might be happening, or to waht i could do ?

[devilsheep]

Either his dick is allergic to latex or just the whole kinda situation solidifying aspect of putting a condom on makes him uncomfortable and he can't do it. Just the fact that having a condom on means you are going to have sex and that may just make him really nervous and lose his erection. He should be able to get used to it after a while though so I dunno just a personal problem with him I suppose. Tell him to practice like putting a condom on when hes jacking off like jack off with one on if he still cant then ih ave no idea

[Capote]

hi, im not sure if this is in the right one or not but i need some help/advice

im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been dating since we were 16, we decided at the start of last year that we were both ready for sex, but our problem is, he can keep his erection while oral sex but when he puts the condom on he cant stay hard but so no condom can go on, but after that it gets hard again.

any help to why this might be happening, or to waht i could do ?

To me, this sounds a tad weird. However, it's possible. I don't think you're doing anything wrong. I think it's basically something that your BF experiences. I can't help you here. :(

[lipstick_kisses23]

you can get an IUD so that he doesnt have to use a condom and there is no risk for pregnancy if it is put in correctly (it doesn't hurt one bit!)