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lipstick_kisses23
January 1st, 2011, 03:24 PM
This is what's going on in my head.

I love guys, but I have an attraction towards females but can't see myself with them long term, just sex. I have had sex with a female before but i didn't know what to think of it. I thought it was just my curiosity but now i kinda crave it. Is this bad?:confused:

SamB
January 2nd, 2011, 05:28 AM
Its not bad its just what you want and that sometimes cant be helped, it sounds to me that your bi but it is only you can decide this for yourself

Kahn
January 2nd, 2011, 06:59 AM
Your feelings aren't bad, because your feelings are what create you. The person you are, the people you love, it's based on who you are. If you like girls, then by all means try to establish a relationship with them. You may just be curious, as every teen goes through this. It's not bad, it's normal. Just don't worry about it, as everything will make sense later.

Bath
January 2nd, 2011, 12:36 PM
Important thing to remember; just because you had sex with a girl, doesn't make you bi, even if you enjoyed it. Being bi is seeing yourself the ability to have a healthy same-sex or heterosexual relationship.

No, it's not bad. (: Live your life, babe.

lipstick_kisses23
January 2nd, 2011, 09:35 PM
I just feel kinda guilty because I don't want to lead anyone on. The girl that I had slept with wanted something more after we had engaged in our activity even though she even said it was just a little fun, but I told her I need time to sort out my feelings. I've felt this way since I was 9, but I never thought about it too much until just recently. I don't think I can see myself with a female but then when I think about finding someone close to me I get wishy washy. Should I talk to someone? I need some help sorting out how I feel and what to think.

lipstick_kisses23
January 2nd, 2011, 10:24 PM
should i try going on dates with girls?